By Steve Weinstein
By Bryan Bierman
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By Ben Westhoff and Sarah Purkrabek
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By Katherine Turman
If you listen to What It Feels Like for a Girl on Music, the song opens with an excerpt of actress Charlotte Gainsbourg from the film The Cement Garden: Its OK for a girl to look like a boy, but for a boy to look like a girl is degrading. Because you think being a girl is degrading. Its hard not to be impressed by Madonnas lyrics or the plaintive emotions she sustains in delivering them over delicate synth swells. Strong inside but you dont know it/Good little girls, they never show it/When youre trying hard to be your best/Could you be a little less? Its a song she wrote for daughter Lourdes, whose big brown eyes will sadly one day be opened to the fact that strong women risk intimidating an awful lot of men (and perhaps a few gun-shy Viacom executives). By the time the third chorus rolls aroundDo you know/what it feels like/for a girl/in this world?what once sounded sweet now breaks skin, even without changing pitch.
Unfortunately, Madonna proffers her visual wares to a fluffed-up trance mix, leaving the Gainsbourg sample and the chorusnow somewhat ambiguous without lyrical contextto stand alone. Its as if Madonna fulfilled her own prophecy: Not too smart, honey, or youll disturb the big, happy party.
Still, its hard to believe MTV would single out this video as too disturbing to air. Madonna cant suggest shes killing herself in a car, but we can see Eminemoops, I mean Standrive off a bridge with his pregnant girlfriend in the trunk, every day after school on TRL? Perhaps if Mrs. Ciccone-Ritchie wants to make a provocative feminist statement in the future, she should wear a thong and have Jay-Z pour beer on her. Doubtless, that would make the censors cut.