By Jared Chausow
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By Jon Campbell
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Of course this product turns out to be for those who don't want gay sex anymoreor at least that's what they say with their legs up and their wrists flapping. The ad is for Molly D'Andrea's book Set Free!, which is filled with the wisdom of "people who've survived sexually abusive lifestyles. . . . There is help for the sexually wounded." Before you run toward Molly's butt with a flaming skewer, let me tell you that writer-editor Matthew Rettenmund contacted Lifetime to express his dismay about the crass commercial. A rep for the channel apologized for the offense but added, "The ad originated from your local cable operator. Lifetime is deeply committed to promoting diversity, tolerance, and understanding." All right, let's all run toward Time Warner's butt with a flaming skewer!
But first let's cool our buns and go back to Gay Pride weekend and all the sticky, wicked nightlife we indulged in, with no chance of ever being Set Free! The meatpacking district bar Hell attracted all sorts of giddy types, like a guy touting a musical he's written in which Madonna songs reflect the changing face of gay culture. (He seemed "Borderline.") The place has pictures on the wall of hateful celebs with penciled horns added (no, not Molly D'Andreahers are already on), an idea I swear I first saw upstairs at a club called Heaven. So we winged over theregoing from Hell to Heaven seemed a natural progressionand found that, though those photos are gone, there are still hordes of real-life gay college kids, the kind too young to know that porcupine hair is a no-no and "I'm still Jenny from the block" is smirkable, not danceable. What a teeming teeny treasure; if this place ever turns into a Pottery Barn, I'm leaving New York.
"From cradle to tomb," as Sally Bowles would say, the evening climaxed at Marie's Crisis, the fabulous wood-paneled West Village dive with hanging balloons and a piano player with a scarily encyclopedic knowledge of show tunes (though he probably doesn't know that Madonna musical yet). All the future, former, and imaginary stars gather here to tipsily "sing out, Louise" on numbers from A Chorus Line and Chicago, and terrifyingly enough, they know exactly where the pauses, modulations, and finger snaps go. When a solo performeroften a twinkly-eyed waiter with a tray and a dreamsteps forward to deliver a spotlight turn, everyone warns "Shh!" as if this were Carnegie Hall, even if it's a white man belting out "Ol' Man River" or a middle-aged guy doing the starlet's number from Nine. And they're rightattention must be paid to anyone with nerve enough to sing those tunes (or "Mr. Cellophane" or "Look at Me, I'm Sandra Dee") in public. Time has frozen here along with the margaritas, and it's so comforting you want to kiss today goodbye and point me toward Sheridan Square. Nobody, no, nobody is gonna rain on thispivot, twirlparade.
And it didn't rain on the parade the next daythank you, Sam Championallowing for a wondrously mixed tapestry of gyrating go-go boys and ominous health messages. I had a special soft spot for the guy holding the sign that said, "We Want Anal Penetration, Not Israeli Occupation" and the AIDS-center float full of officials unsure of what pose to strike as the DJ played "So many men, so little time. . . . How can I lose?"
Not surprisingly the Rambles party at the Park had its most entrancing exercise in sexual subtext ever that nightgood golly, Miss Mollyand though most attendees are no doubt still haunted by the two shirtless twinks in the hot tub, I only remember the now-you-see-it-now-you-don't moon-shaped butt of go-go boy number three. Thank God he didn't turn around quickly, though, or I would have been sexually wounded.
By the way, now that straight guys have adopted all the narcissistic trends that were once started by gay men, the gays will surely reassert some specialness by loosening up a little, vanity-wise. (Yes, queens have been "straight acting" for years, but for straights to suddenly be "gay acting" is their worst nightmare.) The only cutting-edge thing to do now that hetero men get Brazilian waxes would be to totally let oneself go and maybe even pull the duct tape off those love handles. Sure enough, some gay bars are already attracting more diverse physical types than just the usual buff-bodied gym bunnies. (Not that I have anything against buff-bodied gym bunnies, mind you, blah blah blah.)