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Terrified I'll end up in a rest home in New Zealand, I've been accepting any other comp-travel offers, which is how I wound up in Bal Harbour, the Miami Beach boutiques-and-boutique-hotel-laden area that's a wision of love for the aggressively designer-label-wearing. I went for "Destination: Fashion," the Bal Harbour shops' benefit for the Miami Project to Cure Paralysis, many of whose attendees, ironically enough, had voluntarily paralyzed their facial muscles with Botox. But there was enough glittery gorgeousness on display to offset the lack of wrinkles, along with celebs like TOMMY LEE JONES and Christian rocker SCOTT STAPP (from CREED), both of whom looked flawless as they ran breathlessly from my notepad.
But getting back to paralysis, it was a scene right out of Ab Fab as host GLORIA ESTEFAN, who was once in a tour bus accident, appeared on a giant video screen to address the cause du jour by singing, "Get on your feet. Get up and make it happen!" Everyone stayed seated as Gloria suddenly loomed before us in person, saying the charity "is very close to my heartand my back." Before you knew it, a RALPH LAUREN fashion show was unfurling on the runway, and behind my back, a paralyzing reporter was barking into her phone, "No color. No accessories. Timeless. French resort seaside." Thanks. Timeless. Now hush.
I was seatless at the "couture" after-dinner in Neiman Marcus, so I gamely scared up hors d'oeuvres on the lower level, where Caucasian models with slanty-eye makeup stood in Flower Drum Song-type tableaux and, on display by the exit, two immobile flamingos and a baby alligator with his mouth taped shut proved that even wildlife doesn't need fur to be fashionable.
Afterward, mouths were open at Jade, a sprawling South Beach club complete with Ocean Drive magazine's ERIC NEWILL attracting a small crowd by the bar with an impromptu performance piece as a crazed Amtrak announcer. The next day, Angus burgers at the Tides Hotel provided protein and people-watching, and so did that night's effusive Wolfsonian museum Prohibition-style gala, which had boas up the wazoo and PETER DUCHIN daringly dipping into Beatles tunes when his '20s repertoire ran out. (I was too busy ingesting "floating islands" to be that mad.)
The trip's only downside: Parts of Washington Avenue have gotten so raunchy that I was the butt of an "I'll mess you up, faggot" and Paper's MICKEY BOARDMAN got even worse epithets, one about his sequined outfit. ("Nice shirt, sugar-plum.") At least flying JetBlue was a gay-friendly experience. In fact, as I exited the bathroom, one of the male flight attendants exclaimed, "Speaking of gay pride . . . "
I positively brim with Italian American pride too, but that didn't stop me from picking up press tickets in advance for the Radio City Music Hall Sopranos event, then waiting on line for 30 minutes for the after-party. No wonder people turn to organized crime. But I adore HBOeven if its casting people once called to check my availability for a Sex and the City cameo, then booked ISAAC MIZRAHI insteadand I loved the Sopranos characters alternately seducing and ratting each other out, while tossing around observations like "At least Judas didn't go into any apostle protection program!"
By the antipasto tables, I asked MICHAEL IMPERIOLI how the show's changed his life, and before he could answer, he was interrupted by a stampede of fans and well-wishers. "That's how it's changed my life," he said, beaming. His views on gay marriage? "That's a no-brainer," said Imperioli. "If people love each other, they should be able to get married." And so should LIZA and DAVID, and BRITNEY and JASON, and even DREW BARRYMORE and TOM GREEN.
The Oscars must be made illegal, though! Sopranos attendee RICHARD BELZER agreed, telling me that this time, "there was an invisible, gelatinous, repressive air to it all. The scariest kind of censorship is self-censorshipthe intimidation that's happening under the established order that we live in." (Truewhen Hollywood's three baddest boys are fresh-scrubbed and sitting there panting for the gold, something smells funny.) But Belzer has a theory behind the telecast's sheer awfulness. "Every year," he said, "the movie industry takes over TV for one night and makes the most boring fucking show so everyone will go out to see a movie!"
Well, I went out to see a protestthe City Hall one demanding that BLOOMBERG start green-lighting gay marriage. (That's a no-brainer.) Inspiringly, some of the old ACT UP legends were there, like PETER STALEY, as well as some new kids, all chanting and holding signs like "I Deserve a Bridal Registry" (held up by a man) and "Stonewall Was 35 Years Ago. Time's Up, Straight People." Chitchat centered on LARRY KRAMER's brilliantly blistering letters to New York Times heads after they fired stringer JAY BLOTCHER because he was once a publicist for ACT UP. The only cynical note came from a photographer, whom I heard tell an associate, "Want to go to the MARTHA STEWART trial? That'll be better." (By the way, DICK CHENEY considers any talk about his daughter's lesbianism to be an invasion of privacyand a constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage isn't?)
Without protest, I attended a party for the trippy The Saddest Music in the World, where charming co-star ISABELLA ROSSELLINI told me, "I'm not religious, so I don't want to start an argument with the pope, with whom I disagree already on many things, but I never understood why gay marriage isn't accepted. They talk about 'holy marriage.' But the state doesn't do anything holy. It organizes a community!" Isabella warned me to be careful about what we wish for, though, because "it's awful when people ask you to marry them, and you just wanted to have a little fun." Please, I've got my gay flyswatter all ready.
In a marriage of remarkable minds, SPENCER TUNICK is shooting a massive group of HIV survivors for the cover of Poz's 10th anniversary issue, and they'll all be in the nude, maybe so no one can snarl, "Nice shirt, sugarplum."
Finally, finding it hard to stay positive, ARNOLD SCHWARZENEGGER was recently spotted walking around Madison Avenue with a few businessman types, saying, "You mean there's nothing around here? Not even a Starbucks?" No, but there's a lovely rest home in New Zealand.