Threesome Mania

Triple play can be ecstatic, but doesn't always guarantee a good time

Much as I'm a threesome fan, the gung ho guys who are obsessed with threesomes turn me off, making me feel like a pawn in their game. In their rush to eroticize two women getting it on with them, they dehumanize the women. Maybe if they chilled out and let things develop naturally, they'd get their threesome wish fulfilled. Trying to micromanage or force the act makes everyone feel uncomfortable.

A few days after the Voiceparty I e-mailed Rick to find out what so fascinated him about threesomes that he'd do practically anything for one. His answers surprised me; instead of macho posturing, he seemed awed by his threesome fantasy. "As a man, I take pride in being able to please a woman. Being able to please two women at the same time would be even better. The sensory overload, and the ability to focus on one person's pleasure with another person helping out, seems both freeing and ecstatic."

While planning and negotiation are cornerstones of good group sex, part of me wants to stay out all night having a hot, spontaneous threesome, and wishes A. and I had hopped into bed with Rick, consequences be damned. Somehow, though, I don't think it'll be my last shot at tripling my pleasure.


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