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Her Right to Be Obnoxious

Hell hath no fury like a mother scorned

Dyandria Darel is a tiny woman who speaks in a soft voice and often walk s hunched over a cane because of a decades-old injury. Yet when Darel, 58, plants herself outside the downtown offices of the New York City Administration for Children's Services, people stop. They stare. And when they finally move on, some can't help looking back.

Dyandria Darel with a sign from her weekly protests outside the Administration for Children's Services. The sign includes a picture she claims she snapped in 1995 of her now ex-husband lying naked in bed with their young daughter and the family dog. She obscured their faces. We obscured the name of the child-protective worker whom Darel accuses of botching the agency's sexual abuse case.
photo: Brian Kennedy
Dyandria Darel with a sign from her weekly protests outside the Administration for Children's Services. The sign includes a picture she claims she snapped in 1995 of her now ex-husband lying naked in bed with their young daughter and the family dog. She obscured their faces. We obscured the name of the child-protective worker whom Darel accuses of botching the agency's sexual abuse case.

Every week, Darel can be found pacing along the 150 William Street block, protesting the way ACS caseworkers have handled her now closed case. In 1997, the department alleged that Darel's ex-husband, a retired New York City police detective, had molested their daughter. But a series of complicated twists in Manhattan Family Court would cause judges to drop the accusation as "unproven," find Darel guilty of neglect, and place her daughter in foster care. Eventually, she lost custody for good to the man whom ACS had once accused of abuse. The outcome has fueled an eight-year war of words for Darel.

"ACS caseworkers are directly involved in giving custody to a pedophile cop!" she booms to the lunch crowd on a recent Monday. Nearly every passerby stares at Darel, who is carrying a sign almost as big as she is. It calls out caseworkers by name and reads: ACS GAVE A PEDOPHILE COP SOLE CUSTODY OF THE CHILD HE SEXUALLY ASSAULTED. But what draws people's attention isn't the text so much as the image—an old, blown-up photograph Darel purports to be of her former husband, naked, lying in bed with their young daughter, his hands on his crotch.

People walk past Darel without taking their eyes off that picture. They look bewildered, disgusted, angry. They mutter, "That's terrible!" or "That's some sick puppy!"

For Darel, their outrage may be the desired effect. But her tactics, including public displays of this photo, have gotten her into trouble in the past, even landing her in jail.

Darel first went public with the image in 2002, circulating it to school officials and broadcasting it on local cable TV. By then, she had long been posting flyers and producing a public-access show about what she terms the injustices of her case. For years she had been railing about the alleged sexual abuse and dogging Family Court judges, ACS caseworkers, and lawyers with ties to the matter. Judges had been issuing protective orders against Darel, citing her daughter's well-being. The more Darel protested, the more these judges limited what she could say and do on TV and in print. In October 2002, Manhattan Family Court Judge Helen Sturm sentenced Darel to three years in jail for contempt, finding she had violated those orders. Darel sat behind bars at Rikers Island for 28 months before her release, in February 2005.


Today, Darel is suing Sturm, among other city and private defendants, in U.S. District Court in Manhattan, alleging that the sentence was unconstitutional and "in excess of jurisdiction." Dated September 1, the 17-page complaint argues that Sturm violated her due-process rights by incarcerating her for so long without a jury trial. The judge violated her free-speech rights, the suit further claims, by "interfering with plaintiff's ability to telecast criticisms about the family court and the Administration for Children's Services."

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Family album: Dyandria Darel with her daughter

In a parallel strategy, Darel is preparing to file, on April 17, a petition asking the U.S. Supreme Court to hear her case. That petition is based on her constitutional right to a jury trial.

"The Family Court judge just went berserk," she charges.

Sturm (through the court's spokesperson) declined to speak with the Voice or to respond to an e-mailed list of questions, citing the pending litigation. A recent visit to her courtroom revealed a jurist acting with efficiency and empathy. Yet in her rulings on Darel's contempt, it becomes clear that the judge had lost all patience with the mother—perhaps understandably.

"Since the child was removed from her care, [Darel] has conducted a reign of terror against her daughter and her former spouse," Sturm wrote, in one of three decisions on the contempt proceedings. "This Court finds this behavior to constitute very serious violence indeed."

Constitutional lawyers interviewed for this article say they can't fathom, at first blush, how Darel could sit in Rikers for nearly three years without a jury trial and without being convicted of any crime. Under established constitutional law, they say, no judge can send someone to jail for more than six months without offering them a jury trial. Nor do experts grasp how a person could be held in contempt for what amounts to public speech.


Sturm's orders of protection limiting Darel's ability to say and do certain things on TV and in leaflets didn't make sense to Leon Friedman, who teaches constitutional law at Hofstra Law School. "That sounds strange to me," he offers. "She should have a First Amendment right to tell the full story of her complaints against the Family Court and the agency," he says. The allegation against her ex-husband was dropped long ago; if he believes Darel is libeling him, the only available remedy is to file a civil suit. Friedman cites a 2005 U.S. Supreme Court appeal of a case in which noted attorney Johnnie Cochran got a gag order on a disgruntled client who'd taken to protesting outside his office. Wrong move, declared the Supreme Court. "They said courts cannot enjoin someone from libeling someone else," Friedman explains. "You have to file a civil suit for damages."

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  • 03/07/2011 4:48:00 PM

    How come the Westboro Bapist people can do whatever they want, but this mom is being persecuted?

  • Ameilia 03/13/2010 11:21:00 AM

    Dyandria....you are my HERO! And I want you to know that this ugly thing spans the country because all the way over the states in San Jose, California, the same thing has happened to my little girl. But her dad is not any kind of a cop or anyone important at all. Just a home spun thug that grew up in Saratoga, ca and must be doing some nasty stuff to keep the San Jose cops happy, because they are the ones who handed my little 3&1/2 yr. old daughter right back over to him after he shredded her little hymen into pieces! I hate the ignorance that permeates our Americans as our Family Court System becomes more vile with each passing case. The entire business of Family Court is nothing more than that...a BUSINESS.....a money making racket. ANd children are a big revenue generator. I'm sick. Let's talk. Amelia

  • MARKY COBIN 12/20/2008 3:22:00 AM

    THIS WOMAN SOUNDS LIKE A NUT CASE TO ME. LET ME KNOW IF THE US SUPREME COURT TAKES HER CASE? RIGHT? STOP PICKING ON US PORR POLICE OFFICER ONLY TRYING TO DO OUE JOB AND TAKE CARE OF OUR FAMILIES. WOMAN LIKE YOU GIVE US A BAD NAME. GET IT STRAIGHTENED ON BETWEEN YOURSELFS. PUTTING YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS ON THE STREET IS LOW CLASS.

  • Donnie 12/19/2008 7:18:00 AM

    A few years ago I worked on Long Island as an under cover Investigator involved with a Special Investigations Unit in Suffolk County.I am retired from that unit now But I personally looked into Dyandria Darel's charges about a cover up involving her Ex Husband who had been employed by the NYPD as a detective in Transit .I personally investigated many of Dyandria;'s allegations pertaining to a cover up!I found her story to be 100%%%% Credible-CORRECT!I personally contacted the FBI and spoke to the Manhattan District Attorneys office myself!Both agencies were aware of the of a cover up!And both agencies ignored my pleas as they did MS Darel's!Both the FBI and The Manhattan D.A."s office purposely ignored the truth and have this on their soul's!She was innocent of all charges while her ex husband committed rape!She was illigally incarcerated to keep her quiet while too many people in important positions all were caught doing her ex husbands family a favor to cover up his crime.They all are responsible for ignoring the truth letting this women stay in Rikers Island jail!I never saw in my career a more unfair case of American Justice gone terribly wrong!I'm so sorry Dyandria I couldn't have helped more,D.C.

  • Jeanne King, Ph.D. 11/07/2007 12:00:00 AM

    you are not alone! such perserverance and courage in your story check out the article below. you will understand http://www.preventabusiverelationships.com/systemic_abuse.html my best, dr king

 

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