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What about people who are interested in having online sex, not necessarily meeting up with other users in real life. Is there a place for them on OkCupid?
SY: I wouldnt say most people are coming to OkCupid for cybersex. But if you were to put on your profile, Hey, one of the things Im interested in is cybersex, Im very, very confident than in short order youll start finding people who have that interest We have a lot of sexual content on the site. If I go to your profile, and youve taken the Do you give a good blowjob? test, then Ive got an easy segue to start talking to you about blowjobs. I dont have to ask, Do you wanna cyber? I can just be like, Hey, you seem to think you give good head. Tell me about it. Now youre essentially cybering, right? There was no cyber foreplay needed. Also, because the site is free, you see a lot of people chatting with people who are far away from each othersomeone in the U.S. and in France, someone in California and someone in Floridaand at 2 in the morning youve got to wonder what theyre really talking about. Theres this sense that its not so serious, that its not just about getting married. I think if you start flirting with someone whos 2000 miles away, cybering is a place you get to pretty quickly.
Previously in Click Me: Jenna Jameson: Virtual Sex Machine
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