Pride Issue: Why Don't Lesbians Hook Up Online?

Ms. Right, not Ms. Right now

Even so, some women would still like more mystery than the TMI other lesbians require before even a coffee date. "Part of the fun was meeting someone who didn't know me and who I knew very little about," says Brooklyn attorney McCormack-Maitland, who tells the Voice she found her current partner online.

Some sex-positive lesbians believe they've located the real reason why so many of their sisters won't try to hook up virtually: Sinclair Sexsmith, the blogger known as Sugarbutch, tells the Voice lesbians are often "deeply afraid" of making the first move. That's why New York lesbian event producer Milly DuBouchet plans to offer talking points in her forthcoming Parlez to boost come-ons. "If an app came around that took away the awkwardness in lesbian hookups," Sexsmith says, "it would help hundreds get laid." ❤

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wingmaam345
wingmaam345

Try Wing Ma'am! It is the app for us, by us. It's launching soon and seeks to unite the LGBTQIA community. Sign up at www.wingmaam.com

kapishchandra
kapishchandra

Lesbians and gays are surely trying online sites to hook up ... it does take time to know people on gay dating sites ... but its worth the time ... 

karenmcgee90
karenmcgee90

So glad..."Peacock Proud even that an app has been created for FOLK LIKE ME....well overdue

Kuroi23
Kuroi23

I wouldn't say that...I've met every woman I've dated seriously online. It can be hard to find women who are gay because there's not always a telltale sign - unless you're seriously butch, but even then you could be wrong. I think it's just a generational thing.

juleslwilkinson
juleslwilkinson

The very real fear is violence against women. It is simply unsafe for a woman to meet a stranger online without first having had enough interaction to try and satisfy ourselves that it really is a woman we are meeting. And even then, i am going to meet in a safe public space and not turn up at someones house! 

blogzillla
blogzillla

Because women are not pigs like guys are. All gay guys can think about is getting their schlong in the next bung hole - that goes for straight men too

lucidly.livid
lucidly.livid

@blogzillla @bearmon2011

Oh lord, I hope you guys are trolling. 

I don't think men are better than women but degrading men for their sexuality is really just saying its fine to do that.

Women aren't somehow nobler because society has largely taught us that to be sexual is socially and personally dangerous. 

It really shouldn't be any of our business what gay men are doing with whom and why, especially if we aren't gay men! 


Women are humans and so are men. Let humans decide what they want. And if you don't want a lesbian hookup site, don't use one.

Damn. 



bearmon2011
bearmon2011

@blogzillla  

Not very true... Gay men are not after bung hole.. They are after the penises size. therefore, not every gay men are into bung hole, for your information. However, you are right about straight men too. 

 
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