Email Author Bonnie Ruberg

2008 Stories by Bonnie Ruberg

• Can’t Keep Track of Your Sex Life? The Internet Can.

  published November 12, 2008

  What would your sex life look like as a pie chart? How many times have you orgasmed from intercourse over the last twenty years? Has your favorite... More >>

• Hot for Teacher: Cybersex With a Naughty Professor

  published November 12, 2008

  In college, I always had the hots for my professors. In class I was the model student, but back in the dorms I liked nothing more than the... More >>

• Stuck in a Sexless Marriage? You're Not Alone.

  published October 29, 2008

  Grits4Ever, a forty-something Southern wife and mother who’d prefer to go by her anonymous online handle, doesn’t have sex with her... More >>

• Sarah Palin Erotica

  published October 15, 2008

  As the carnal inspiration for schoolgirl action figures, naughty Halloween costumes, and an upcoming Hustler porn, Sarah Palin is the first overt... More >>

• Digiromp: There's a Hot Lesbian Party and You're Not Invited

  published September 23, 2008

  Lesbians, if you're looking for a subtle online spot to hang out with fellow women who love women, More >>

• Joining the Mile High Club Just Got Easier

  published September 17, 2008

  Ever wanted to join the Mile High Club, but couldn’t find a stewardess who was willing to squeeze into that itsy-bitsy airplane bathroom with... More >>

• Interview With an Orgasm Broker

  published September 10, 2008

  When Allen Stein created his first sex machine nearly a decade ago, he didn't know he'd end up in the webcam porn business—or... More >>

• Life Is Short. Have an Affair, New York.

  published August 19, 2008

  When Ashley Madison, a social networking site for married people looking to have affairs, put up a billboard in Times Square, the owners of the... More >>

• Telling the Internet My Dirty Little Secrets

  published August 12, 2008

  Friday, July 18, 4:45 p.m. Woe is the researcher who passes out in the midst of a kinky spanking in a Second Life... More >>

• Who Needs Monogamy When There's the Internet?

  published August 5, 2008

  Is it cheating to have sex with someone online if you're dating someone else in real life?  What if your flesh-and-blood partner agrees to... More >>

• Zivity.com: Updates from a Topless Laundromat Madonna

  published July 23, 2008

  Before founding Zivity.com, the sexy web startup that claims to "promote female beauty," Cyan Banister says she was the kind of person who'd jump... More >>

• The Man Behind the Fucking Machine

  published July 16, 2008

  Sex with a robot might not sound so bad, but what about sex with a blender? Tomcat (his professional name) is the resident director for... More >>

• The Juicy Tale of Naughty Nurse Meets Pirate Wench

  published June 10, 2008

  A pirate wench walks into a sexy nurse’s office and asks, “Could you examine me? I think there’s something wrong with my... More >>

• Porn and Pong: Videogame Sex Beyond Grand Theft Auto

  published June 3, 2008

  Sex and video games have been bedfellows since the first days players wrapped their hands firmly around their joysticks. In fact, according to... More >>

• Coming Out Cybersexy

  published May 20, 2008

  The day I sit down, look my mother in the eye, and tell her I like having sex with strangers on the internet is the day I choke myself with a... More >>

• Australian Girls with Pubic Hair Reclaim Amateur Porn

  published May 13, 2008

  At her first shoot for amateur-porn site AbbyWinters.com, 19-year-old Chloe B. stripped in front of a camera crew in her university dorm room,... More >>

• Does OkCupid Shoot Digital Arrows?

  published May 6, 2008

  Over the past decade, Sam Yagan, co-founder of dating mecca OkCupid.com, has gone from running a humor site famous for the “StinkyMeat”... More >>

• Jenna Jameson: Virtual Sex Machine

  published April 22, 2008

  Porn superstar Jenna Jameson may have retired from the adult entertainment industry this January, but Jenna fans needn’t worry: her virtual... More >>

• Can Online Sex Heal Emotional Trauma?

  published April 1, 2008

  In 1948, Alfred Kinsey shocked America by pulling back the covers on our country’s bedroom habits. Back in the days when women wore poodle... More >>

• I’m No Good at Dirty Talk. How Long Can I Keep Moaning?

  published April 1, 2008

  Q. Currently I'm immensely enjoying cyber sex via voice chat. My partner is very good at describing his actions and what he is... More >>

• Are Anonymous Mobs Reliable Sources for Sex Advice?

  published March 18, 2008

  A bit of advice for anyone who worries about their sex life: don’t sweat it, because you're not alone. According to Richard Rubin, the... More >>

• Have the Cybersex ‘Experts’ Ever Had Cybersex?

  published March 4, 2008

  Dr. Jennifer Schneider makes her living talking about cybersex addiction. Like the rest of “her circle”—a handful of therapists... More >>

• The Biggest Bathhouse on the Internet?

  published February 19, 2008

  Last night, the population of Korea watched me have a threesome. I couldn’t see all those faces, but I knew they were there: quiet, probably... More >>

• Cybersex Sounds Hot—But What If I Get Addicted?

  published February 5, 2008

  Dear Bonnie, I’m a reader who likes your columns about cybersex. I used... More >>

• The Top Ten Reasons Why Cybersex is Good for You

  published January 22, 2008

  When I tell people I write about cybersex, I get a lot of curious reactions. I’ve grown used to, for example, the “Oh my God,... More >>