Can You Tell A Top Or Bottom From Their Personality?
Like a true top, I'd have to answer my own question and say:
I mean, you can't tell that's my preference just from casual conversation.
I'm nervous and mumbly and bizarre and seem outrageously passive-aggressive, but when push comes to shove, as it were, I'm a total rock star.
And I've met plenty of guys who seemed assertively right up at your face who turned out to be total bottoms--and I'm not talking power bottoms or aggressive bottoms.
I mean total do-what-you-want-with-me slaves who, with the flick of a light switch, become putty in your claws.
Of course there are a lot of people in the versatile range, but I'm talking about the huge number of guys who greatly favor one over the other.
(You know who you are.)
And naturally, you can just read their profiles and see what they favor, but they often lie, or at the very least misrepresent their desires--or sometimes they don't really understand them at all.
So what I want to know is, how do you go up to someone, have a conversation, and come away exclaiming:
Or vice versa.
This could save us all lots of time.
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