Sex Tips and Advice

  • Voice Choices

    April 2, 2014


    Reverse the polarity of that shimmy

  • Voice Choices

    July 24, 2013


    A birthday party for the femme-friendly zine

  • Blogs

    April 18, 2013

    Dan Savage's Husband Poses In His Underwear

    Terry Miller--who happens to be sex advice columnist/activist/TV personality Dan Savage's husband--has posed in his underwear for the Mr. Turk fashion label.

  • Voice Choices

    February 27, 2013

    Ladies' Choice

    Cinekink presents a day of feminist porn

  • Voice Choices

    January 23, 2013


    Explore the Middle East at MOMA P.S.1

  • Blogs

    August 10, 2012

    The Best Posts of the Week!

    In case you missed it, our week in review: We launched a new drinks column with 10 awesome tips for wine rookies! After debating the future of food trucks, we got a taste of Colombian-style roast chicken, and discovered a funny new word.

  • Blogs

    August 8, 2012

    Vegans Have Better Sex According to Singing Woman

    This news comes to us by way of DNAinfo, which reported that there has been a singing vegan lady trying to convert East Village meat eaters into vegetable-eating purists. "Vegans have better sex, better health, cleaner conscience," Grace Weaver, the vegan advocate, has been singing. According to t ... More >>

  • Blogs

    April 26, 2012

    Meryl Streep Tries To Go Down On A Banana!

    In her illustrious career, Meryl Streep has played every type of human and accent under the sun, but I've always thought, "And yet she's never tried to go down on a banana! Onscreen anyway!" But now she's attempted it.

  • Voice Choices

    April 11, 2012


    Sex writing done right

  • Blogs

    October 27, 2011

    "Marriage Isn't For Everybody," Matchmaker Assures Me

    ​This week's column is that fun interview with Siggy Flicker, the love coach with the VH1 show about training people to date better through grooming, generosity, and keeping things a little bit mysterious. Well, I was extremely comforted when she told me that it's perfectly OK to not want to ... More >>

  • Blogs

    October 11, 2011

    5 Best Lines From Nerve's "Sex Advice From Line Cooks"

    ​Restaurant kitchens! If Anthony Bourdain's Kitchen Confidential is to be believed, they are drug- and sex-filled dens of iniquity, which is why they are the perfect place to ask for sex advice. The cheeky people over at Nerve decided to ask a group of line cooks their expert opinions on every ... More >>

  • Blogs

    May 23, 2011

    Atheists Have the Best Sex

    ​Today in sex studies: You will have much better sex if you are not religious, if by religious you mean the type of person who is plagued with guilt both during and for weeks, maybe even years, after sex because SEX IS BAD. This is the lesson we may take from the Daily Mail's examination of a ... More >>

  • Blogs

    February 17, 2011

    Half of American Women Are Batshit Crazy

    ​Fitness magazine is yet again asking the hard questions: Would you skip sex for a year if that meant you would be skinny? Or...would you prefer to "have great sex and be 30 pounds overweight"? A little more than half of their survey group of 2,400 ladies said they'd skip the sex. Portions of ... More >>

  • Blogs

    December 15, 2009

    Take the NYC Condom Wrapper Challenge! City Seeks Designs

    ​The Department of Health invites you to design the next New York City condom. Yes, those rebranded LifeStyles condoms the city has been handing out like parking tickets for decades are getting a makeover and the Bloomberg Administration is giving citizens a crack at a certain kind of immortal ... More >>

  • Voice Choices

    April 15, 2009


    An evening with Ira Glass and his hipster/geek pals

  • Columns

    March 18, 2008

    Are Anonymous Mobs Reliable Sources for Sex Advice?

    At, sex questions get answered by “experienced” users—but is their bad advice cause for worry?

  • Columns

    November 13, 2007

    Midwestern Kink

    Dry academia—and slightly wetter hotel antics—at an Indy sex conference

  • Columns

    May 8, 2007

    Coitus Interrupt Us

    Couples with mismatched libidos have few resources to address their issues

  • Blogs

    January 17, 2007

    Open Thread: Married Sex in the City

    The Voice introduces a new sex column this week, Married, Not Dead. Nora Shelley and Essie Carmichael live in Brooklyn, are raising kids, and are determined to get lucky with their husbands. Carmichael leans toward me and whispers in my ear, "Doing it without a child in the house is really hot." T ... More >>

  • NYC Life

    November 15, 2005

    La Vie de Paris

    I had friends here; the dollar was high. They have better sex clubs. Though at my age, it's a little . . .

  • Art

    April 5, 2005

    When Chloe Met Charlotte

    MIICRNYCOAGNWMA? The attack of the female campus sex columnist!

  • Columns

    October 12, 2004

    Candid Candida

    The porn star as educator: liberating women's bodily (and video) pleasure

  • Books

    March 5, 2002
  • Columns

    December 19, 2000
  • News

    November 14, 2000

    ‘The Position’

    Weekly Webzine From the Museum of Sex