Next week, the Girl Scouts will propose a new merit badge for girls to acquire, one they can earn by learning about domestic violence. Among some of the lessons required: find out where victims can go for help, and how to distinguish between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one.
Age: I’m not going to tell you. Resides: Village Occupation: Writer Did you learn about domestic violence as a kid? I was in the Girl Scouts. I didn’t know anything about it then. No one talked about it. What else should there be a badge for? Incest. It goes hand-in-hand with domestic violence. Also, public services, that’s really important that people don’t do enough of. Worst fight you ever had with a significant other? Verbal abuse can be almost as devastating as physical abuse.
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Age: 23 Resides: Long Beach, Long Island Occupation: Student Did you learn about domestic violence as a kid? I can’t recall ever learning that in school. But something like What else should there be a badge for? Maybe self-defense. Especially in New York. Street smarts for women that a man wouldn’t have to know. Worst fight you ever had with a significant other? I don’t fight that much. It goes in one ear and out the other. But it’s usually things like, “Where were you, you’re late?” And I’d be like, “I was out getting gas,” and she’d say, “No you weren’t!”
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Age: I don’t want Resides: North Bronx Occupation: Customer service Did you learn about domestic violence as a kid? No. I lived it. The problem is, when you grow up with domestic violence, you think that’s how you’re supposed to be as an adult, until you get help. I got help. What else should there be a badge for? They should learn more about self-appreciation. There’s a lot of that not going on these days, girls giving sex too easily. Worst fight you ever had with a significant other? Jealousy. It became kind of physical.
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Age: 26 Resides: Midtown Occupation: Consultant Did you learn about domestic violence as a kid? Yeah, through school. Like in What else should there be a badge for? Female self-esteem, in terms Worst fight you ever had with a significant other? Paying for dinner. It always comes up. I try to pay and he won’t let me.
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Age: 25 Resides: Park Slope, Brooklyn Occupation: Investment banker Did you learn about domestic violence as a kid? No. As an adult, in college, I learned, I guess. And movies. I remember seeing The Burning Bed with Farrah Fawcett. What else should there be a badge for? They should learn about discrimination in the Worst fight you ever had with a significant other? Over money with a boyfriend. He thought I was being too extravagant, but it’s my money.
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Age: 28 Resides: Bayonne, Occupation: Business consultant
Did you learn about domestic violence as a kid? No, it really wasn’t a hot topic back then. What else should there be a badge for? Worst fight you ever had with a significant other? Something about jealousy. She was accusing me of something.
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Age: 43 Resides: Floral Park, Long Island Occupation: Firefighter Did you learn about domestic violence as a kid? No, not at all. What else should there be a badge for? I have two girls, and right now, I’m into family trees. I’m trying to get them into it. Man, if I had started when I was their age, I’d have Worst fight you ever had with a significant other? Whenever my wife and I argue, it’s over at the end of the day. One of us has to apologize. So even though I don’t think I’m wrong, I’ll say, “Honey, I’m right, but I apologize.”
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