“I Won’t Sleep With a Guy if I Find Out He’s Done Drag”



I heard a gay male say that recently and I wasn’t the least bit surprised.

After all, that’s a prevalent point of view among a substantial part of the gay population.

A lot of guys are so into the machismo game that if a partner turns out to have tapped into his inner femme–even if just for Halloween and even just once–that automatically makes the person unsexy. A nelly. A fraud. Untouchable. And totally gross.

Is this appalling or a perfectly natural reflex for a same-sex lover?

And conversely, how do you explain all the drag queens running around with super hot guys on their arms?

Are these men more comfortable with the entire gender spectrum or are they just closeted gays who convince themselves they’re with a woman?

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