Guys Who Like Fat Chicks

One time in Spain, an old woman spotted Charlotte in public, stopped abruptly, and crossed herself. “Like I was Satan.”

After walking four miles a day overseas, Charlotte lost 75 pounds, which she gained back upon return. And then some. Roller-coaster weight spikes and dips have steered her life since she was a small child. Her folks split when she was a “normal little healthy” two-year-old girl with dimples and Shirley Temple curls; she and her mother moved in with her grandparents. “Grandma always had body issues. She was probably about 225 or so and she always hated herself and was trying to lose weight and gaining it back,” she says, apologizing for drawing the conversation into such solemn territory. “My mom worked really long hours, so grandma was basically raising me. She put me on this diet and made me so small that my pediatrician said something to her. And then she would start feeding me what they ate, which was potatoes and junk food, until I got fat. Then she would put me on a diet again.”

Charlotte is pretty sure that all the yo-yo dieting of her adolescence screwed up her metabolism permanently. Her first long-term boyfriend was a 21-year-old with “a little bit of a potbelly going on” whom she’d met online gaming. But after more than a year of having a 325-pound girlfriend, he caved to frat-boy peer pressure. “His friends couldn’t stand the thought of one of their friends dating someone as fat as me,” she shares matter-of-factly. “Finally, he said, ‘You’re going to have to lose weight, or we’re going to have to break up.’ And I loved him—I really loved him—so I really tried. I tried to lose weight, I tried dieting, I tried, and as with every diet I’ve ever been on, I ended up 75 pounds heavier than when I started. So that took me to 425. And he broke up with me.”

She’s moved on, and in rather spectacular fashion. Scouring the Internet for plus-size clothes, she’d discovered BBW chat rooms when she was 18, and subsequently, a community of Fat Admirers rabidly attracted to her. Naturally, she explored this inverse reality, when it came time. “I had a rep—” she pauses to get the word out, “reputation for a little while. I did! I totally did! As a slut! I’ve been with seven people in my life. I do not feel that’s excessive. I am extraordinarily picky, but I am not one of those women who plays games. If I want to sleep with a guy, I don’t necessarily make him wait until the third date. We’re adults!”

At the moment, she’s not sure if she likes Spanish Guy “like that” or not. He’s already called three times during lunch—his photo pops up when he rings, and the man pictured is a conventionally attractive man—but it was an hour earlier than she told him to call, so she shut off her phone. “What really pisses me off is the attitude that, like, that guy is dating below his league just because the girl he’s dating is fat. And in fact, I may well be above his league,” she laughs. “You can’t know that, unless you know who I am.”

Among the fat community, there’s a particularly infamous CSI episode centered around a fat woman having sex on top and killing her partner. “She was only 250 or 300 pounds or something like that,” says Charlotte. “I have been 500 pounds, and I would like to say that on top is my favorite position! I have not killed anybody yet.” She smirks. “It’s just interesting the way that society sees fat sexuality,” she says. “It doesn’t exist, or it kills you.”

Dear Askaguywholikesfatchicks: Is this because you think you can’t do any better? —BBB
Yes, but not in the way you’re thinking.

“It’s like one big boob.” That’s Dan’s shorthand explanation for what it’s like to be with fat women, what their bodies feel like naked, and the physical attributes he’s found himself attracted to his entire life. If it sounds crass, well, that’s the best way he can explain his fat attraction to other straight guys who express befuddlement and disgust. “It’s the same property: Men like fondling soft breasts, and I don’t get why that doesn’t apply to the whole body.”

It doesn’t in many, many Western minds. Even the author of the 20th century’s big-ass anthem doesn’t like fat chicks. You know, “Baby Got Back,” the 1992 Sir Mix-a-Lot hip-hop classic that blasts, proudly, defiantly, ravenously: I Like. Big. Butts! And I cannot lie! Sure, the Seattle rapper’s anthem is technically one with an “itty-bitty” waist planted atop a “real thick and juicy” backside, the provenance of Shakira wannabes and King magazine. But many Fat Admirers have adopted it as their own. A rap-metal cover of the track appears, as nether-region salute with a version of Ted Nugent’s “Thunder Thighs,” on last year’s BBW-friendly compilation WHOLE LOTTA LOVE: An All-Star Salute to Fat Chicks.

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bbwsingles
bbwsingles

Not every guy in the world likes women to be stick figures. Not every guy in the world want his woman to be all skin and bones. There are men who happen to like your softness and curves, just like I like your attitude, and your style. I like the way you for me. [ Google BBWLover . org] and you will find more men who love BBW.


bbwsingles
bbwsingles

Not every guy in the world likes women to be stick figures. Not every guy in the world want his woman to be all skin and bones. There are men who happen to like your softness and curves, just like I like your attitude, and your style. I like the way you for me.


ertgh
ertgh

Bitch probably paid the guy in that photo. lol

shell.l.mockett
shell.l.mockett

I love big men,so sexy to grab hold of something soft.I am my self a large woman,would really like some large sexy male to cuddle up against.

kduprey111072
kduprey111072

Hi im bbw im looking for my dream man . I want a nice guy . Im kind friendly sweet i just been looking and looking for him . Im 40 years old . Just looking for my man . :)

clintonrieckhoff
clintonrieckhoff

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Ayan
Ayan

i love white chubby girls with thick thighs  and always dream to meet,is there some chubby girl? please write me i will be glad 2 meet

Ayan
Ayan

i love white chubby girls with thick thighs  and always dream to meet,is there some chubby girl? please write me i will be glad 2 meet

horribilis
horribilis

I've known about this for a while and though it's an interesting change from men and boys who are fixated on thin women, "fat chicks" and "thin chicks" are not actual people.  How about being into Susan or Tanisha or Madeline or whoever, because she is smart and sweet and easy to get along with?  Are there women and girls who are only interested in "thin guys" or "fat guys" or is that strictly a male phenomenon?   Objectifying people is no way to encourage healthy relationships or dismantle the ever-present rape culture we live in.

srsladd
srsladd

Wow this is awesome, I am a bbw and this new found world has boosted my spirit. I have always loved me and this just takes my love for me into a different realm.

srsladd
srsladd

Wow this is awesome, I am a bbw and this new found world has boosted my spirit. I have always loved me and this just takes my love for me into a different realm.

rosebud_101170
rosebud_101170

Wow I never knew anything like this existed... 

princedanladi
princedanladi

I'M LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP I'M LOOKING FOR A HONEST Big FAT WOMAN IF U'RE INTERESTED add me or inbox me i'm honest and serious, you can also add me on skype as de.governor01 or friend me on fb

BBW40
BBW40

Fabulous web site I have just found of a classy fat lady think I'm in love!  

 

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BigGirlsRun2
BigGirlsRun2

Not all fat women have low self-esteem and have health problems. I'm 5'3", 205 lbs and I run 4x week and do yoga 3x. Yes, I'm fat and I'm a walking contradiction to what health scientists have researched. Matter of fact, I should be dead b/c of my BMI, but I'm not. I exercise, I eat, I date, I don't hate myself, and I really think one can be big and healthy. Big people shouldn't have to feel like they need to lose weight before they start a new exercise or start dating or just to start something different. Do it now! B/c you only have one life.  I'll prove it to you, check out my running/health blog, www.BigGirlsRun2.com 

 

We all have different dating preferences and it's a good thing. If we all liked the same thing then we would be fighting over the same thing all the time. Fat can be beautiful and fat can be healthy. And, liking and dating fat people are not a fetish, it's a preference. 

 

Swingking_1
Swingking_1

Guys who like fat chicks have a sick fantasy of breaking into the zoo and raping the hippos. That is the only reason they like fat women. Celulite is disgusting. Rolls, double chin/neck, jello arms, stretch marks ugh i'm getting sick. FAt women are disgusting

Skele1zee
Skele1zee

fat girls work the magic than skinny girls and nothing is better the a girl wife more meat on the bone.i live it.

Farooq Wani
Farooq Wani

most of the people think that fat girls are ard or every body hate these girls, but as a human being we should not think about these kinds of things they are also part of our soceity we should not ignore their sentments neither we have the right to play their emotions, as a media person i like fat girls and i looking a good fat girl which is beatiful this message i put for those girls who is interesting me i was just 15 when i impress very much with fat girls but sometimes i hesitate to say any body that i am interested with fat girls. with best regards, country india state jammu and kashmir cell : 09596453647

Michael Scott Peterson
Michael Scott Peterson

I don't know about most but my reason for liking fat women has nothing to do with any misplace emotions, fears or fetishes. I've had a thing for them since I was younger, I just loved being with someone I can hold on to, someone that doesn't mind me hugging them. Its nothing personal to smaller women I just like what I like. Most of the women I've dated in my life were fat, we had great relationships, interesting conversations, and well our sex life well lets put it like this, things I've done with my girlfriend most dude who have petite girlfriends wish they could do with their chick. People just need to get over the fact that no matter what other people think its what the person whose dating said person whether their a Fat man or a woman. Bottom line is its not your relationship! Who arre you to judge?

Kayleen Bell
Kayleen Bell

If guys like big girls, good. If they don't, good for them too. Anything someone is attracted to shouldn't be looked down upon. What really annoys me is when people talk shit about bigger people though.. Are you perfect? Perfect personality, perfect looks, and have never done anything wrong in your entire life? If so, THEN you can say something, but seeing as how no one alive has ever been perfect, you just need to stfu. Do you criticize people when they have a different sexuality or a different race? Why is it acceptable to make fun of someone for their weight, but not those things.. No one should judge anyone for those types of things. If you find a fat girl that is lazy then dislike that about them, but just know that you'll find just as many lazy skinny girls too. I don't understand how people can ruthlessly judge someone that they don't even know, based on what they look like. If you think someone is unattractive, good for you, don't look, no one is forcing you to and their life does NOT concern you in any possible way. Mind your own business and live your OWN life instead of pointing out what you see as a flaw in someone else. & it doesn't matter if you think they're hideous.. maybe they feel the same way about you. People just need to grow up.

Trying to clean up FB
Trying to clean up FB

Some of these BBW pages on FB are disturbing as they tend to be soft porn which is not allowed per company policy; yet that doesn't deter these women to pose as they do as I guess they need total validation from strangers that they are sexy and desirable. But it is odd that most men from other countries are the ones who seem to think so. I am just appalled as to what they post as this are no "age restrictions" or adult pages on this site, and youngsters could easily find them as their pages/groups are open. I wonder about their morals and integrity...as I would others who have done this as well, but now this is almost like a cult. But then, too, are are those whose pages lead to their porn site addy's right which is illegal as well. To be fat/obese and like yourself is one thing; but to show it as they do, that is for sites other than FB. And most claim they are healthy....but wait until they are 50+ and then come back and tell us that as obesity DOES leads to health problems that cost us taxpayers and health companies money, plain and simple and there is nothing sexy about that.

Neene_80
Neene_80

I come from a family of athletes so I had to learn to deal with criticism and rejection early on. I have always had issues with my weight. It's been a roller coaster. I gain weight in junior high. And had some really hard times dealing with my peers. I didn't think any of the guys really liked me until my first love. He would defend our relationship to any and everyone who opposed even his teammates. When I went to college my confidence skyrocketed. I realized it wasn't meant for everyone to appreciate all that God gave me. And that all this love could only be appreciated by a select few. So yes I am fat. But that is only a fraction of the women I am. Don't judge the book before you read it. If I can take from the people I love. Who gives a fuck what the rest of the world has to say. If you don't like it don't look. If you can't help but look, take a picture and use it to get off with.

Lghshortsay1
Lghshortsay1

i am a happy fat girl...... now thanks to the internet, as i teenager i was an unhappy fat girl as everyone told me i needed to diet to find a man...i was thinner when i met him. but im far happier now that im fat and living my life for me. he tells me everyday how perfect i am. Yet he isn't a fat admirer just a man who loves his wife no mater her size.

gorgeousenglishmanlol
gorgeousenglishmanlol

Nice article, fatties are hot, my current girlfriend loves her fat and having it jiggled and played with and is turned on by overeating, stuffing and growing fatter which is ideal!!

Mohamed Zain
Mohamed Zain

Aren't they supposed to be human beings also!! why discriminating and why the priority to skinny girls with bones poking their whole body!! Chubby girls and BBWs are beautiful, affectionate, tender, soulful, and HOT.. They will definitely make you happy. Salute to every big girl out here, WE LOVE YOU ALL :)

Superman056780
Superman056780

I love fat chicks with all my heart and will never stop loving and cherishing them

Honeycocoathai
Honeycocoathai

My boyfriend pretty much summed it up this way "I like the way you look and if they don't it doesn't matter and if they want to continue to push the issue, I got two fists that would love to discuss it further." I love that man

Amy
Amy

It just goes to show that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think this is a great article that shows there is someone out there for everyone and everyone is beautiful in their own way. As I get older and more mature, its more about who the person is, their style that makes them attractive. Looks are great but its not the only thing that makes someone attractive. Very touching!

Riddlegirl94
Riddlegirl94

OK I have been reading the comments and I have to say a few things. If some on here don't like fat girls and thinks its disgusting then OK. Its your life you can like what you want to and do whatever the hell you want to but don't put us down like some of you do. We have feelings too you know. And second, not all skinny people are healthier than fat people. I have a friend who is a size 6 ( l am a size 24) and she has some of the worst problems ever because of what she eats and because she is so lazy. I have been put down all my life because of my weight and I tried to kill myself over it once. Sorry I didn't mean to make this sound like I was whining. I'm still waiting for a guy to come along in my life and this gives me hope :)and to all the guys that like us for who we are, thank you. ~ Jill

thatkassiegirl
thatkassiegirl

This ISN'T a fetish. It's a preference. Just like the next guy might prefer his girls with red hair, this guy and many others prefer their women fat. Simple.

Mike Luciano
Mike Luciano

I love big ladies they are good to you and know how to treat their Man they will love you a long time... and won't ever cheat, Lie or steal from you.So are you that lady I'm looking for if so email me at italian120065@yahoo.com I'll be waiting for your email....Love Big Girls....hugs and kisses...

MikeB
MikeB

I was going to have a date-leading to sex with a chubby girl I met online today but I cancelled.I was afraid she would be fatter than her photos.I banged too many fatties in the past two months. They are easy.I need a change

fatwoman
fatwoman

Why are so many women creeped out by fetishists? Almost all men are fetishists in one way or another. So what? That is just what men are like. I understand that some people consider fetishes dehumanizing, but I don't think appreciating somebody as a human being and appreciating them as an object of desire are mutually exclusive. I feel sorry for men who like fat women, it seems as if there are plenty of men, women, and even fat women who are weirded out by such preferences.

Sam the Man
Sam the Man

all you big, beautiful women...if you are ever in Chicago ~ hit me up! sterranova@aldridge-electric.com

Frigidwhispers
Frigidwhispers

What bothers me about this kind of comment, is that there are people out there with such low self esteem already, and they are suicidal. Some of us fat girls have doomed ourselves and convinced ourselves that we will be alone for the rest of our lives. It's such a sad fate. Almost everyone wants to be loved unconditionally by someone. And then people like that get on things like this, and spew that hatred for people that are not like them. I can only hope that someone they love gets fat, or actually, I can only hope that they get fat and maybe they will see the world in a different way, but to each his own. There is a special place in hell for them.

Michelle
Michelle

You know what I liked about this article and this man they've interviewed? Only ONCE did they use the term BBW. Through everything he just said he liked fat chicks, fat. Fat. FAT. Fucking say it you guys and stop hiding behind dumb terms formed on the internet, seriously.

I am fat, I am gorgeous, and by fucking god I am a woman, but the term BBW turns into a instant fetish or creeper word to me. I'm an intelligent woman and I feel sometimes those terms demean me, do skinny women have a short term? "Skinny Sexy Woman" SSW? If so, please tell me if there is a obsession here because I must be missing out. I can do the terms chubby, overweight, obese, sized, whatever, just not "large ladies" and "big beautiful women" and "chubby chaser" makes me sick as a fat chick.

It's like the racist term for fat people; it's like calling the fucking kettle black. It's offensive while meaning to be explanatory.

Truly I look skinnier than most girls at my wight because they're shorter, but I'm fat. Still fat. Most deny that I'm fat, but I'm fat. I'm OK with it-- Screw all these haters, mayn! Haters gonna fucking hate.

5'8'' 200 lbs at 22 white bitch right here and feelin' good.

Lisa
Lisa

Fat may be unhealthy but lets be honest- 95% of people will never lose the weight, so why not just accept ourselves and be happy? However, being a feeder is as destructive as trying to get someone to slim down as it preys on low self esteem and demeans women. We all want to be accepted and loved for who we are- fat thighs or chicken legs.

Girl
Girl

Look, I am a big girl, and yes It is unhealthy to be like this, but it's really obnoxious when men and women discriminate just because I'm" bigger." my boyfriend is probably not into bigger women, but he stays with me because we love each other and that's all that matters. He has encouraged me to go to the gym and that's what I have been doing. Sometimes all that fat girl or fat guy needs is too feel like they are worth something , so maybe they could change ( I am still happy with my previous weight and who I am now). But to go ahead and tell someone " you just don't have enough self esteem to get a smoking hot woman" is just childish and blind sited. Grow up, if you like a fat girl , but your super healthy, encourage her to workout with you just because you care enough for her. Really, don't be juvenile about the whole concept.

kduprey111072
kduprey111072

Hi im bbw im looking for a relationship . How old are u ? Where are you from ?

Siski1978
Siski1978

I agree with you they shouldn't judge!

arvindh234
arvindh234

@Kayleen Bell  

u r right sweeety

Soft&Cuddly
Soft&Cuddly

Isn't if funny that I have been on face book for a long time and never come across these pages you speak of? I don't doubt that they are there- I just never went looking for them as you seem to have been doing. Are you gay and into big women by some strange chance? I mean here you are again...on a blog about big women? Do you maybe belong to the itty bitty titty committee or the moral majority? (Do they even exist still?) I am joking in a way but I am seriously wondering why you have your tighty whitey cotton panties in a bunch over big women and the men who admire them? Is the gay community too well connected and received for you to target them so you found a new thing to champion? Why single out large women? Did one of you ex's leave you for one? I'd really like to get to the bottom of your fetish to persecute large women. You need to stop stressing - put parental controls ( or as I may suspect...husband controls) on your computer. You don't think you kids see sex and sex related content on television, movies, school buddies stash, computer. Face Book? Hardly where some kid is going to go looking- just like your generation looked up dirty words in the dictionary today's kids are Google them and ogling them a whole lot more. Talk to you kid don't rant at the world because it's a lot more effective.

Ashley Pacheco
Ashley Pacheco

You are an idiot..... There are numerous FB pages that are equivalent to "soft porn' as you described it. And they are open. There are also many disgusting pictures and videos being spread around FB that contain both skinny and fat women alike. You're whole argument can be thrown out the window. Ugh. And then to say that their weight will cost "us taxpayers and health companies money" Honey.....I'm a plus size women and I pay taxes too....and my own health care. You should really erase your reply to avoid any further embarrassment.

Amena_69
Amena_69

@Mike Luciano where are u from ?

Taylor Scott58
Taylor Scott58

Shit up bitch yo skinny ugly ass stank breathe bitches I hate skinny fuckd duck a ding dong

Busan321
Busan321

This isn't even English get an education before you attempt to flame somone you ignoramus

 
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