Killing Mom and Dad on Staten Island

All-American kid Eric Bellucci fell into madness and violence, leaving his brother and sister behind to wonder if he could have been stopped

Killing Mom and Dad on Staten Island
Ian Dodds

One evening last October, on a quiet block in Staten Island, a man named Eric Bellucci came out of the bedroom that he barricaded himself into on most nights and used a hunting knife to stab his parents, Marian and Arthur, until they bled to death.

The murders took place sometime between the evening of Tuesday, October 12—when the family got sushi delivered—and the following afternoon, when Bellucci took his parents’ 2007 Honda Ridgeline to JFK and boarded an El Al flight to Tel Aviv. His younger sister, Vanessa, discovered their parents’ bodies when she showed up at the house later that night.

In the days that followed, media outlets mobbed the funeral of the Staten Island couple, while an international manhunt ensued. Bellucci, who is 30, was apprehended when he tried to use a credit card to buy a plane ticket to Beijing. A week after the murder, he was brought to Staten Island for arraignment.

After killing his parents, Bellucci was captured in Israel.
Photograph by Michael Oates
After killing his parents, Bellucci was captured in Israel.
Eric Bellucci with his father, Artie.
Courtesy Bellucci family
Eric Bellucci with his father, Artie.
Eric Bellucci with his mother, Marian.
Courtesy Bellucci family
Eric Bellucci with his mother, Marian.
Brian and Vanessa Bellucci at the time of Brian's wedding, to which Eric was a no-show
Courtesy Bellucci famiyl
Brian and Vanessa Bellucci at the time of Brian's wedding, to which Eric was a no-show

With their parents dead and brother in custody, Vanessa, a 25-year-old law student, and her 28-year-old brother, Brian, a physician doing his residency, are what’s left of the immediate family. Until now, neither sibling has spoken to the press. In a series of exclusive interviews with the Voice, they describe their brother’s descent into mental illness and offer a portrait of a family coping with a problem spiraling out of control: Despite their attempts to get Bellucci institutionalized, his family was unable to convince a court to authorize the state to medicate him, even as the troubled man—a diagnosed schizophrenic—was stockpiling weapons in their home.

On April 28, after spending six months on Rikers Island, Bellucci was found not mentally competent to stand trial on homicide charges (his attorney, Mark Fonte, did not respond to multiple requests to be interviewed for this article). As a result of that court decision, the State Office of Mental Health will place Bellucci in a psychiatric institution where he can be medicated by force if he poses a danger to himself or others. After a year, he will be periodically re-evaluated. If it is determined that he is able to understand the charges levied against him, he will stand trial.

If he never does comprehend what he’s accused of, he will be committed for the rest of his life.

The first thing Eric Bellucci’s siblings remember that indicated something might be wrong were the unusual infatuations he developed while in law school.

In 2003, Bellucci had enrolled in Brooklyn Law School, but he instead became obsessed with documentary filmmaking in a way that seemed odd and a little troubling. With a high school friend, he began making a film about poverty in Red Hook, and, while shooting it, he began developing exaggerated ideas about his own role in the community.

“At one point, he was trying to ‘save people in Red Hook.’ He would give someone a ride, and to him he was becoming a ‘super-mentor,’ ” Bellucci’s brother, Brian, says. “Or he would befriend someone, and he would call it his ‘gang outreach.’ He thought these were huge gestures.”

Vanessa remembers what in hindsight seems a crucial early sign that Bellucci’s mind was not right. During his film project, he became convinced that someone was trying to steal his videotape. His friend became so concerned by his paranoid behavior that he called Bellucci’s mother, Marian, who called Vanessa.

“I vividly remember where I was when my mother called,” she says. “So it indicated, looking back, that we were starting to be worried about him.”

Around the same time, Bellucci developed another infatuation—Judaism. He was raised Catholic, but when he discovered that an Italian grandfather had been Jewish, he began studying Hebrew on his own. He even sought guidance from Rabbi Aaron Twerski, a professor at Brooklyn Law School. But Twerski referred Bellucci to a campus psychiatrist. A school official who saw him around this time tells the Voice, “It did not take a maven to see that he was a sick, sick boy.”

For those who knew Bellucci well, it was bewildering to see him so quickly become someone they hardly recognized. Only a few years earlier, he had been the star quarterback of the Stuyvesant High School football team, a magnetic standout in a school of standouts.

The Belluccis were a close-knit family in the upscale Annadale neighborhood of Staten Island. Arthur Bellucci had worked as a bond trader on Wall Street before becoming a real estate broker at the Corcoran Group. His wife, Marian, worked as a manager for a home health company and, after an MBA, started a company providing home-nursing services. Marian’s mother and sister lived nearby and often dropped by to visit. The kids, meanwhile, were pushed to achieve in school, sports, and music. “If there’s one thing that I remember about the Belluccis,” says a high school friend who asked not to be named, “it’s that they were close—almost unusually close for a family in this day and age.”

Both Bellucci and his sister, Vanessa, went to the elite Stuyvesant High School in Manhattan. When Seventeen magazine profiled the school, Bellucci and his girlfriend—the football team’s trainer—were photographed together for the opening spread. “Everyone who looked at my brother—all my friends—thought he was the best-looking guy they had ever met,” Vanessa says.

“If you had asked me where I thought Eric Bellucci would be right now, I would say . . . working as the manager of some company, running things!” says Raymond Wheeler, a Stuyvesant assistant principal who was also Bellucci’s band director. Of the thousands of students he has taught since the 1970s, Wheeler says Eric Bellucci was one of the five he considered the most memorable. “He was bright, articulate, and he had that magic personality, that charm. He could get things done, and people wanted to do what he wanted them to do. I noticed that right away as a teacher.” And yet, Wheeler says, Bellucci handled his popularity “without an ounce of arrogance.”

A student who worked for the football team but did not want her name used, has a similar recollection: “A lot of guys who are popular can be jerks—that’s the stereotype. Eric wasn’t one of them. He was a strong player, and a lot of guys looked up to him,” she says. At an academically demanding school like Stuyvesant, even being a football team captain did not confer automatic social stature, and she says it was Eric’s personality that made him so popular.

But Brian remembers his older brother differently. “He was completely egotistical about everything he did,” he says, “Eric would never take any criticism. He would fire the insults right back. Everybody yessed him. His third-grade teacher probably yessed him.” He adds: “With the illness, that became narcissistic behavior.”

Wheeler can still remember where he was when he heard about the murders. He said his whole body went cold. “If you were to ask me if Eric Bellucci was going to end up in the mess he ended up in? I would say never in a million years.”

After his senior year, as quarterback and captain of the Stuyvesant High School “Peglegs,” Bellucci was named an All-State Scholar by the New York State High School Football Coaches Association and won a scholarship to Williams College in Massachusetts.

He was listed on the 1998 football team roster as a six-foot-three, 210-pound freshman wide receiver and defensive back. Mike Whalen, the team’s coach at the time, says that Bellucci was extremely disappointed to find out that he wasn’t good enough to play quarterback at the school. “Many guys would have just walked way,” he says. “But to his credit, he worked hard and started as an outside linebacker. He worked his way up the ladder. I think, in his heart, he thought he should have been starting quarterback, but when I told him that would never happen, he didn’t give up.”

Like many students in college, Bellucci struggled to settle on a major, first choosing pre-med and then political science. Later, he decided he wanted to be in finance and did an internship at Merrill Lynch. His academic performance began to taper off, but only slightly. He was very involved with his team, but didn’t act like a jock. “He was a very unique individual, in that he didn’t always have to hang around a certain group of guys,” says Whalen. “I would see him on campus with lots of different kinds of people. He traveled in a lot of different circles.”

Whalen says he never noticed any signs of mental illness. After college, however, he did notice a change. The football team at Williams is extremely close-knit, and alumni tend to come back for years to attend games. But Bellucci, though he played for four years and was always involved with the team, never showed up to a game after college. And he never once went back to see his coaches.

Bellucci’s siblings believe that in college he began using anabolic steroids (they say their parents found empty containers in his room when he was away). Whalen says he didn’t see evidence of it. The Belluccis also say their brother used cocaine and began smoking pot more frequently. (Six years later, he would be a chronic drug user.) If true, drug use would have almost certainly exacerbated the onset of his schizophrenia. Dawn Velligan, director of the Division of Schizophrenia and Related Disorders at the University of Texas, tells the Voice that in patients who have an underlying predisposition for mental illness, drug use can help trigger the disease. Schizophrenia typically develops in late adolescence and early adulthood, but Velligan says that many people can start exhibiting more subtle signs of the disease years before that.

After Williams, Bellucci enrolled at Brooklyn Law School, but almost immediately seemed to lose interest in classes. Instead, he took up the filmmaking and other obsessions. He dropped out of school in 2004, moved back home, and began formulating plans that were increasingly far-fetched. He told his family that he wanted to be a photographer, and then a model, and then an actor. He bought thousands of dollars’ worth of photography equipment. He would hatch grandiose business plans, and took trips to Paris, Italy, and even Israel to execute them. He always referred to these trips as “business ventures,” but no one was quite sure what he was doing when he traveled.

“He was becoming disorganized,” says Brian. “His ambitions were starting to make less and less sense. There were some realistic things, like law school, and some unrealistic things, like turning his businesses into empires, and it would become nationwide, and with that he could buy a villa in Tuscany! At first, some things seemed realistic, but then they just started to come, you know, over and over and one after the other. If you took all his ambitions together, they were no longer ambitions. They were delusions. Because no one could be all that at one time.”

The family did not know what to make of Bellucci’s behavior. “At first we chalked it up to that egotistical aspect of his personality,” Brian says. “It’s like, if you know somebody is mentally ill, you look at what they do and say they are delusional. But if you don’t know they are mentally ill, then you look at it differently.”

Schizophrenia expert Velligan says that it is common for families, in the early stages of the illness, to have trouble distinguishing between the signs of sickness and the more extreme sides of the person’s personality. “Our personalities are what they are, and should we become psychotic, our personalities shine through that. So if his worldview is ‘I’m right and everyone else is wrong,’ then when a person becomes psychotic, that is developed to the extreme.”

“We all became worried around the same time,” Vanessa says. “But it was about him, never about ourselves. And we knew that there were issues that were coming up and needing to be addressed, but you’re not really sure how to go about doing it.” She adds: “Maybe there is a denial element. But then it just becomes so clear that you can’t be in denial.”

By 2005, the delusions had really set in. “He thought he was leading this big life,” Brian says. “At that point, his lifestyle was changing from one minute to the next.” He would go for months without seeing his friends, and then would call people constantly. He would go into the city and stay out all night. At one point, he went to Atlantic City five times in a month. He started taking more trips to Israel, but instead of scheduling them a week or two in advance, as he once had, he would buy his ticket and fly out on the same day.

The family tried to bring up their concerns with Bellucci, but it was not easy. He would usually get angry, and tell them that they were the ones who needed psychiatric help.

Bellucci also began to develop a military obsession, and would walk around the house in Army fatigues. “My mother would say, ‘Eric, you have a closet full of clothes—why are you wearing the same thing every day?’ ” Vanessa recalls. Sometimes he would dress very formally, and would put on a suit to go out and check the mail. He would drive to West Virginia to buy hunting rifles at Walmart and began racking up credit-card debt. He adopted certain phrases indicative of paranoia—“Something’s up in the town here,” was one of them. At times, he thought he was a victim or possibly a member of organized crime. And he started to develop a hatred of women, and often said that his female relatives were conspiring against him.

At that time, Terre Ciervo, Marian’s sister, remembers that he would act remote at family events—making brief appearances and then leaving mysteriously. Relatives say that sometimes, to escape the city and seek what he referred to as “his peace and serenity,” he would go back to Williamstown, Massachusetts, where Williams College is located. Sometimes he would book a hotel for the weekend, but he never went back to visit his football coaches that he had been close to. He lost touch with friends.

As Bellucci became more delusional, he would say that it disappointed him that his family did not believe in his grand plans. “He started to feel like we weren’t taking him seriously,” Vanessa says. He became resentful and angry, and began referring to his parents by their first names. There were frequent fights in the Bellucci household, but family members tried their best to pick their battles, knowing that any disagreement could throw him into a rage. Sometimes, when he got very angry, he punched walls or doors, busted car tires, or scratched cars with his knives and his keys. One time, he got so angry that Marian locked herself in the bathroom in terror. After that, the family was walking on eggshells, doing whatever they could not to antagonize him.

Attempting to diffuse the anger, Marian would jump at every opportunity to have a conversation with her son. She would listen whenever he was in the mood to actually talk, even if all he discussed were his delusions.

“You could just see the toll it took on her, on her face,” says Ciervo. “In just a few years,” says Vanessa, “they aged so much. It really hurt.”

Marian was the most involved with her son, and she hid his illness from everyone besides her immediate family. With Brian, who was studying to be a physician, she would discuss the clinical aspects of Bellucci’s situation. She relied on Vanessa for emotional support. But even Marian’s sister, Terre, who lived nearby and whom she saw frequently, knew very little about what was happening. Friends, too, according to Ciervo, had no idea that Bellucci was sick; they thought Marian and her husband were just overworked. “My sister was a very private person, and I know that she was going about it in her own way to get some help,” Ciervo says. “She didn’t talk too much about it, and, you know, I didn’t ask. When she wanted to tell me something, I listened.” She added: “She was disappointed that Eric wasn’t what he could have been.”

It’s less clear how Arthur dealt with his son’s illness. His children say he was supportive of Marian’s choices about Bellucci’s care. He also felt that if Bellucci got violent, he could physically handle his son. At one point, according to the Staten Island Advance, Arthur asked an old friend who had been in law enforcement about whether it was legal for him to trace his son’s movements. (The friend, Frank Floridia, did not respond to multiple requests from the Voice for an interview.)

By 2008, Bellucci was losing weight rapidly, and had become a chain smoker, smoking two to three packs a day. He would take a puff or two on a cigarette, throw it out, and immediately start another. Arthur, whose father had died of emphysema, was especially hurt by the smoking, his children say. Bellucci was also smoking pot constantly, and his siblings suspect that he was abusing cocaine as well.

On a February afternoon, Vanessa was driving into the city when Bellucci called and told her that he was standing in the shower and was about to slit his wrists. She drove home immediately and found her brother in what she called a “psychotic haze.” The family called 911 and Bellucci was taken by ambulance to Bayley Seton Hospital, about 25 minutes away. But he was never admitted, the family says. “He probably just convinced them that he was OK,” says Vanessa, adding that her brother, like many schizophrenics, could disguise his illness when he needed to.

That same year, Bellucci missed Brian’s wedding in California, where he was supposed to be best man. The day before the event, he called from Israel, saying that he had to stay there for business. “So that put a stamp on it,” Brian says. “Now, it’s like he’s missing things. Now it’s starting to feel like, not that it’s falling apart, but that we can’t be a family.”

In August 2009, Bellucci was finally hospitalized. He had taken his mother’s computer into his room and barricaded the door, claiming he was protecting her from bad people who were going to hack into her machine. His mother screamed at him, trying to make him understand that her company’s files were on the computer. He wouldn’t open the door.

Ciervo says it was the first time she really understood how sick her nephew was. It was also the first time anyone outside the immediate family had seen that side of him. Vanessa called the police to have her brother removed from the house.

Bellucci was admitted to Staten Island University Hospital, where he stayed for about six weeks. During his hospital stay, he was injected with a long-acting medication, which his siblings say made him very mellow, almost without personality. Marian went to visit him every day, but for the most part he refused to see her and the other family members. He was furious for being hospitalized against his will, and blamed everything on his family—specifically his sister, Vanessa. It was during that hospital stay—about six years after his illness began to surface—that he was diagnosed with schizophrenia.

The hospital’s on-site psychiatrist, Dasen Brajkovic, told the family that he was going to bring a petition to a judge that recommended Bellucci for an “assisted outpatient treatment.” An AOT court order would give doctors the right to come to the house and medicate him there. (Brajkovic did not respond to requests to be interviewed.)

Bellucci’s siblings say that Brajkovic told them he felt they had a strong case for an AOT order. The family was elated. “We thought that could have been the answer to our prayers,” Brian says.

The law that allows this is called Kendra’s Law—after Kendra Webdale, a young woman who died in January 1999 after being pushed in front of a New York City subway train by a man who was not receiving treatment for his mental illness.

Kendra’s Law has been the subject of bitter political fights. Civil liberties advocates have argued that it infringes on the rights of competent mentally ill people to make their own health care decisions and to refuse treatment if they choose. The ACLU and other groups argue that Kendra’s Law was supposed to apply only to individuals with a history of violence—a small percentage of the mentally ill—but was being applied to anyone who did not comply with a doctor’s prescription. The ACLU has helped defeat a similar statute in New Mexico.

Even with a court order, Kendra’s Law, mental health experts say, is toothless in New York State. Nurses cannot compel a patient to take medication unless the patient is an immediate threat to himself or others. And the criteria are very narrow: In order to qualify, a patient must either have been hospitalized two additional times within the prior 36 months, or have threatened or attempted to cause physical harm in the prior 48 months.

Still, the vast majority of petitions are granted in New York courts—the most recent data show that 93 percent of petitions are granted.

For some reason, Bellucci’s was not among them.

Prior to his hospitalization, Bellucci had been smashing car tires and punching walls, stockpiling firearms, and making threats like, “I’m going to burn the house down,” his siblings say. Brian says that he and his mother provided all of this information to Brajkovic. But without the transcript to Bellucci’s Kendra’s Law hearing—which is not accessible to the public—it’s unclear what the judge in his case was told about his behavior. His siblings only know that the court was not convinced that he should be subject to an AOT order, even though granting such orders is nearly automatic in this state.

The day Bellucci was discharged from the hospital, he came home to his parents’ house. The long-acting medication he had been given was in effect, and he was under orders, by Brajkovic, to visit an outpatient treatment center a few times a week. It was September 2009. Vanessa had just started law school. She remembers sitting on the back porch with her brother, and for the first time in years, the two held an ordinary conversation. Bellucci asked if she liked law school, and she told him that she did. He was mellow, medicated, but more mentally present than he’d been for a very long time. That, she says, was the last normal conversation she would have with her brother.

Once the medicine wore off, Bellucci was angrier and more hostile than ever, Vanessa says. He blamed her, and his parents, for locking him up, and when she came over, he would lock himself in his room.

Then he began barricading himself in regularly, putting furniture in front of his door. He would only come out at night, when he was alone in the house with his parents. He developed a health-food obsession, and would sometimes take the car to Whole Foods to eat. He began smoking in the house, an affront to his father that he had never made before. Distrustful of tap water, he began importing bottled water from Israel.

He told his parents that he would kill them if they sent him back to the hospital. Arthur had thrown out his son’s rifles during the hospital stay, taking them to a local precinct’s gun buyback program. Bellucci responded by obsessively ordering hunting knives. In the last months, Vanessa says, packages of knives were being delivered to the house constantly.

Without the Kendra’s Law petition, however, the family didn’t have many options. If Bellucci did something violent, they could call the police and have him hospitalized again, and then try another court petition. “Marian was hoping he would make a wrong move, possibly like the last time, so she could put him on the program,” Ciervo says. “But he was smart enough not to. He knew what not to do. He would push the button so far, and then he would stop.”

But Brian points out that his parents were reluctant to call the police, even when it might have been appropriate. “They didn’t want the SWAT team to come in and have him kill himself right in the room there,” he says. “So they thought they would roll the dice.”

And there was another reason, the siblings say: Their mother didn’t like the state hospital that he would be taken to if they called authorities. “She wanted him to go to an academic hospital, where they would be better equipped to deal with such a unique case,” Vanessa says. Her mother believed that in a better hospital her son would receive superior care and might be less resistant to treatment. In the weeks before the murders, Marian had been discussing with Brian the prospect of getting her son into a treatment center at the prestigious New York Presbyterian Hospital, but their discussion always went around in circles. They both knew Bellucci would refuse to go.

Dawn Velligan says these kinds of impulses are common in families who have children with serious mental illness. “There is very little a family in that kind of situation can do,” she says. “Part of the problem is that people walk around on eggshells. People don’t want them to become violent and threatened, and so what happens is you have the mentally ill person running the whole house.

“I think the situation was far more dangerous than the parents realized,” she continues. “If you are afraid in your own home, it’s time to do something about it. I tell families: If you are walking on eggshells, you have to stand up to them. Everyone is afraid to confront a person like this, but you have to do that in order to get them out and to get yourself safe. I would have been calling 911 every day.”

In the weeks leading up to the murders, Bellucci had been threatening to kill his parents on a regular basis, and his threats were becoming more pointed and serious, Brian says. Marian never told Vanessa about the threats.

On the night of the murders, Vanessa and her grandmother were visiting. Marian was working at the computer, Arthur—“Artie,” as everyone called him—was watching television, Vanessa was working on her law school homework, and Eric was in his room upstairs. Vanessa wanted to leave early—she had a feeling of dread in the pit of her stomach, for some reason—but her mother convinced her to stay while they ordered sushi. She and her grandmother left after eating.

The next day—Wednesday, October 13—Terre Ciervo had plans to go with her sister to the Richmond Hill Country Club to attend a fashion-show benefit for children with developmental disabilities. (The Staten Island Advance reportedly incorrectly that Marian attended the fashion show with her son, Eric, based on the statement of Terre’s husband, Joe. Marian was killed before the fashion show occurred, and Joe says the Advance must have misunderstood him.)

That night, Ciervo says she was concerned because Marian hadn’t answered her text messages. She went to the house and rang the doorbell and no one answered. “I didn’t go around the back,” Ciervo says. “Something told me not to go around the backyard, and I’m glad I didn’t, because I didn’t want to see that.” She went to the fashion show, and called Vanessa, relating her concerns. It was Vanessa who then went to the house and found the bodies.

To this day, Vanessa insists that her parents never really believed that their son would actually hurt them. “As parents, they would have given their lives for any one of their children,” she says. “Unfortunately, they did not think it would be at the hand of their child. I don’t think she thought in a million years that he would have harmed either one of them.”

Brian, however, says that his parents weren’t entirely blind to the danger. “They were rolling the dice,” Brian says. “They knew they would either go down with him or get him help. They did not fear for their safety. And they thought they would go down with the ship if they were wrong.”

Neither Vanessa nor Brian have seen or spoken to their brother since the incident. He has sent them letters from jail, but they don’t respond. They say he seems psychotic in his letters—in one, he’ll insist that the murders were committed by organized crime; in another, he’ll blame their uncle Joe Ciervo, or members of the CIA. Bellucci avows, in his letters, to get to the bottom of his parents’ deaths, saying that he misses his mother terribly.

As long as he refuses medication, his siblings see no point in communicating with him. They don’t even attend his court hearings, preferring to read about them in the news.

“Is he going to become medicated and one day realize that he did it? Or will he be medicated his whole life and have no recollection?” Vanessa asks. “I don’t know which is worse.”

edwoskin@villagevoice.com

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Metsfan1119
Metsfan1119

Being a personal friend of the family i can say that they did absolutely everything that could do for thier son. It was very hard for them to cope with and get help for thier loved one due to all the red tape that they encountered. But through it all they never gave up in trying to get Eric the help that he so desperately needed. For all of you who have negative comments to say i would strongly advise to keep then to your self. Im sure that If the shoe was on the other foot then im sure you would not like comments made of ur family or friends. For all of you that express condolences and reguards towards them, im sure they appreciate it.

Empathy
Empathy

My heart goes out to this family. As a parent I probably would have done the same thing. Your children are precious gifts from God! It's terrible that our system let them down.

arthurb3
arthurb3

Its obvious his parents funded his lifestyle. You can't do all the traveling and drugs without money and he had no job. Unfortunately, you can't commit a mentally ill person to a hospital unless they are a danger. That is why we have so many homeless and street people now.

Donnaemonroe1
Donnaemonroe1

All I can say is that I believe the closing of mental institutions is a mistake, budget cuts for mental health has hurt everyone.I also wonder if he has a brain tumor, did he take steroids? It is just sad and two wonderful people are not with us. My heart goes out to the family, this should not have happened.

Stella
Stella

I had a schizophrenic step-brother who was tazed to death in one of his un-medicated arrests. At one point in the late 90s, the courts probationed him on the condition that he "maintain his mental health" which meant cooperating with medication and counseling. When the probationary period was over, he was no longer under court mandate....which made no sense to most of the family who had been struggling to keep him in treatment and to get him the support services he needed. Could he have killed one of us? I do not know the answer to that question...and the fact that I couldn't know frightened me and others in the family away. In the end, he was arrested for domestic violence (his also mentally ill girl-friend) who begged the police to take him to a hospital instead of jail. Instead he was taken to jail, and without treatment he became increasingly paranoid and delusional and tried to "run out" of the jail and was tazed and died a few hours later.

VM
VM

My heart felt condolences to this family it wasn't enough what they went through this but to see some of the irresponsible comments that were made on here makes me question the compassionate and the morality of the world we live in. Stories like these are designed to inform, to shed light and create a discussion about what to look for and what can happen. So thank you for sharing your story.

Sweeney
Sweeney

I was a friend of Eric's and knew him since around college. I have to say it is one of the saddest stories I have ever read not just because I have a personal connection to him, but because the system failed him and his family so horribly. Eric was not a monster, he was actually a very kind, gentle,sensitive individual who loved his family. He always shared this with me and it was apparent from how close and protective he was of them. What I saw over the years was a subtle change in his character and a lot of depression, I had no idea what he and his family was going through. But it was clear something was not right. It is hard to know what to feel, but nothing is black and white. The act him committed was horrible, but he as a person was very different than the person with the disease. He was a lovely person who has a very debilitating mental illness and because the system did not work effectively, something of this magnitude happened. It is apparent from reading this article, that the system needs to work in favor of the families, get a least several days of evaluations and enforce medications for people having psychotic breaks with reality.

Warrior-Woman
Warrior-Woman

After the first death threat the parents should have had him forcibly removed from their house and thrown off the Brooklyn Bridge. No reason for someone as nuts as this to live, the world has enough problems.

J. Browne
J. Browne

This is a heartbreaking story that highlights the deep conflicts inherent in loving a child who is ill. Mentally and/or physically impaired, the feeling of responsibility to take care of and help a child who is an adult raises important questions about where to draw the line. Many parents who face physical, mental, or financial danger, face a no-win dilemma. Working in the field of mental health, I am glad to see Ms. Dwoskin bring this issue to a wider audience.

classie
classie

@ MzIsis2008 You are about as dumb as a rock. Look at the crimes that people without color do every day. You people kill your parents faster than a fly that draws to $hit. So go do a little research and you will find out that white kids kill their parents all the time. Way more than blacks do..Now, stay in your trailer and do your homework. You are one uneducated person....

Hannahmiet
Hannahmiet

Elizabeth,

Your story on the Bellucci's in the Voice was beautifully crafted, executed and full of truth.

Both as an aspiring journalist (I'm a student of Tom Robbins at The CUNY Graduate School of Journalism) and as someone with a schizophrenic sibling, I needed to send you a thank you note. [And since email returned to sender, it's public. Whatever.]

You inspire me to keep trucking. Consider me a permanent reader of your work.

All my best,

Hannah Miet

Steganophoner
Steganophoner

It is obvious that this is an unbelievably slanted story. Eric Baldacci was framed. The reports of him threatening his parents are hearsay. He appears to have been involved in some kind of international crime ring whose objective was this very frame-up of him.

★ Soap
★ Soap

Sad end , Parents always have a hope, poor family.

MzIsis2008
MzIsis2008

They went to authorities for help with a situation out of control and they ignore them till the child killed them... That is the kind of thing they only used to do in communities of color. We are in trouble if they are doing this to middle class whites now... Get it they don't really care about us.

diva2freak
diva2freak

Woooow..... As a parent, we are often in denial when it comes to our children. We expect for them to be our "shining star". Not only do we unconsciously put a lot of pressure on our kids but they put a lot of pressure on themselves to live up to our expectations. This is clearly a case of mental illness that was beyond anyone's control. As long a the main party refused treatment it just got worst. I truly feel for the remaining family members. God bless them and ease their woe's

The Cynical Pharmacist
The Cynical Pharmacist

"As long as he refuses medication, his siblings see no point in communicating with him."

Unfortunately, this is the attitude one "must" take when dealing with this terrible disease. If only his parents could have been as tough minded.

Yianis Ayianis
Yianis Ayianis

That's a Greek tragedy for sure...My condoliances to all the family members. Being a scientific Astrologer I would like to erect Eric's chart and see his "inner" story. Does anyone know his date and time of birth? Thank you.

Msb174
Msb174

Fascinating case. Particularly the obvious element of self-delusion about the limits to mental illness. When someone's stockpiling weapons and making death threats, the time to intervene, strongly, has come and gone. Of course I feel for the parents, and the siblings, but they were neglecting their responsibilities by "rolling the dice." He would have had a better chance of getting cured if they'd committed him to a mental institution than now, after experiencing the life-altering trauma of murder.

truckdriver1402
truckdriver1402

A tragedy to be sure

preventable??

Dont know

All we can do is learn from this and if /when you see drug use/behavioral changes be aggressive in taking action to get the person help

prayers out to the family

ibivi
ibivi

The hardest part for family is that their loved one has changed and is not the person they knew. Once these behaviours start do not discount them. Get medical help right away. Have a psychiatric assessment done so that a diagnosis can be made and medication prescribed. Make sure that the medications are taken as prescribed. If there are any signs of paranoia or delusion take them to a hospital for treatment. If they make threats against family members take them very seriously. Call the police. Without ongoing psychiatric treatment they will not get better. They will only get worse. Talking to them will not make their condition improve no matter how much you wish it. Schizophrenia is a life-long condition which requires constant vigilance for proper maintenance. You must be a strong advocate for treatment with medical authorities. Ask for assistance in dealing with this illness.

RoughAcres
RoughAcres

If only this country had a different attitude about mental illness. It is ILLNESS. Just as with meningitis or measles or a broken leg, it needs treatment... and when the person suffering does not get treatment, the whole family suffers, and society suffers. The ripples are enormous, even when they do not end in a tragedy like this one. Some people with mental illness are incompetent to make medical decisions for themselves - especially when they are delusional - and they should have a springing healthcare proxy in place so their medical proxy can make decisions when they cannot do so with full knowledge.

I am so sorry for the entire family. My hearat goes out to them all.

Twende08
Twende08

It's a tragic story. No doubt. But in my opinion, the article leaves many unanswered questions. I am not sure why the siblings chose to share their perspective of their brother's life story and mental illness. The article does not convey their emotions or purpose well. I don't know what I would do in their shoes but just wonder what they are trying to achieve with this.

lilthreadz
lilthreadz

wow. just wow. horrible tragedy, and best written news story i've ever read.

Andrew
Andrew

Well researched and well written story. Interesting interplay between the private lives of a family and the state that didn't do enough for them.

Boohearnecar
Boohearnecar

Every year for decades we have a story about a son who goes off the deep end and murders his mother/father/sisters/brothers/entire family. Remember the DeFeo kid (Amityville)? Being a mother I always put myself in the shoes of the mom who ends up dead at the hands of her child. What was it like for her to go to bed at night and know just a few feet away her flesh and blood is in mental and spiritual agony. It is easy to say, 'weak parents.' My only question (not answered in this well-written story) is: where did he get all the money to fly all over the world on a whim and buy all those guns? Not to mention the camera equipment etc. Can someone answer this for me please?

Jh
Jh

Terrible terrible sad story. I completely feel for vanessa and Brian. Having first hand experience of a family member who had a break down and became mentally ill, I completely understand what they went through. You can call the cops over and over again, but unless the mentally ill person admits himself into psychiatric care, you can't force them in. In essence, you do become fearful and try to walk on eggshells in order not to aggravate the person. No one really is there to protect you, so you feel that is the solution. I cant tell you how many times you can call the cops, but unless the person physically assaults you, they will do nothing ( and then the cops get annoyed if you call them again).

Something really needs to change in order to stop these senseless things from happening again. If the whole family is fearful and realizes all the signs of a mental illness, they should be able to admit the individual into a mental care hospital. Medications should be enforced, not optional....

My thoughts and prayers are with vanessa and Brian and their extended family. Stay strong, your parents are always with you....your guardian angels.

Nleeds01
Nleeds01

That is what a mixture of Steroids & Cocaine will do to you. Some guido trash from Staten Island probably hooked on that crap

boogirl
boogirl

warrior woman, you should be thrown off the bridge in punishment for being an idiotic douche

Lsciervo
Lsciervo

drop dead u moron. Do you know anything about ,mental illiness asshole why dont ypu research it or can u read? probably night. You should throe one of your chidren off the vz bridge u stupid jerk

Tyke
Tyke

Your "solution" would be the approach in either Nazi Germany or under the rule of the Taliban.

Kararindou
Kararindou

You're a graduate journalism student, and yet you use the word "whatever" in what is intended to be a "thank you note". If you intend to enter a profession in which you need to be aware of how your words come off to others, you may want to screen yourself for your pretentiousness (and the faulty parallelism in your first sentence).

Geena Romano1970
Geena Romano1970

think your comment is quite stupid MS IZIZ what your sayin is "i thought this only happen in the Color Community?"not the plush suburbia todt hill,s.i. or annadale etc. few others nice spots on the island. get a life. and some brain, it happen to also middle to lower class rich white peeps too....

RIP to his mother,the father.guy had a great future working as dr. or lawyer is most prestige position one can take when your able to cut through all of the hard work,legal study etc. finance to get through it. i knew this guy cousin,will not say his name we still talk.his uncel art was a GREAT guy,wife,was known to b a quite reserve,smart caring.very Happy loving fun woman.great mom.but yet THIS is how he repay em? ROT IN HELL.i m not buyin it neither are many of the fam. i mean sure he suffer from schizo.but not as in the way your all whose lookin in from the outside think. guy was Extreme prudent.i know the judge should have authorize the court order,but who knows. i doubt it would havhelp,even some family member of his who i still talk with is still sayin same thing,because i know this guy did NOT have to do it,so he need to rot in hell...

RIP to the real victims. the parents. very tragic.

LSCIERVO
LSCIERVO

U shouldn't make judgements om my family, really now we are all still mourning and we will forever for eric also he know not wat he has done

Guest
Guest

Msb, didn't you read the piece? He was in an inpatient facility and released. You think there is an app or a website to have a person "committed"? He had been through the mental health system and released.

LSCIERVO
LSCIERVO

thank you we need them, We miss them so much

B1704489
B1704489

There is no treatment without consent. That point is made in the article. The AOT would have enabled doctors to medicate him on the outside w/o consent - the court refused to grant that request.

There is no long term "commitment" for the mentally ill.

The police are of limited help and sometimes make a situation worse. I understand the agony, frustration and cautious behavior of the parents. It is a no-win situation many times, in this case the consequences turned out to be extreme.

Peace to the survivors, blessed rest to the victims.

LSCIERVO
LSCIERVO

Really sounds good too bad u weren't the judge. The system failed my family

OCLocal
OCLocal

They said he racked up credit card debt. My guess is that is how he got the credit card debt?

Guest
Guest

Boohearn, in the 2000s, anyone with a pulse was able to get credit

LSCIERVO
LSCIERVO

MY FAMILY ASS THEY DIDNT CUT HIM OFF

54321
54321

Agreed. There is little help from the "system". Calling the police is mostly futile. I have a friend who had an out-of-control teen who was terrorizing her & vandalizing the home (punching holes in walls breaking doors, etc). She called the cops during one episode and was arrested! They asked the son if she had hit him, he said yes - both she & the son were arrested. She was charged with misdemeanor assault which was later dismissed but...why be put thru that and what kind of example did that set for the boy?

he knew she had no avenue of help after that.

There was also a mentally ill man in a neighboring apartment building who was drunk & fighting with his wife. The police wound up shooting him in the apartment after a long stand-off. The shooting may or may not have been justified, hard to say especially by those of us who were not there but it certainly was a tragedy for all concerned. There are no happy endings in these situations.

Very sad stories, which indeed might be prevented if there was indeed a way to "commit" someone to a hospital when they begin acting out.

Missboo42
Missboo42

I totally agree with you. The laws must be changed so that family members or friends can 5150 someone for at least a day or two for evaluation. That law is in effect in California, I know. It needs teeth to it. If doctors ascertain the patient is a danger to himself/herself/anyone, they can legally keep that person in the hospital until they are on meds or have calmed down enough to be allowed back home. By the time he killed his mom and dad, they must have been exhausted from trying to save him. In a way it was a mercy killing. They would have had to endure years more of this insanity and would have eventially gone nuts themselves or run out of money trying to save him. Drugs. No one can tell me any of them are safe and 'recreational.' They are all poison to your brain, body and soul.

B1704489
B1704489

Yea, "guido" the big popular epithet that is okay to say on the Internet. The last frontier of protected racism.

Guest
Guest

Nleeds, so if being well educated (and if you did your homework you would see Williams is a top 5 school in the country), and coming from a successful family makes people trash, then how can you prove your standing in society?

AB
AB

Guido trash? He went to Stuyvesant and Williams, two top notch academic institutions. His brother is a doctor, his sister in law school. Just because they're Italian? Racist much? Not to mention it's absurd that's all you took from this heartbreaking story you moron.

LSCIERVO
LSCIERVO

UR AN IDIOT GET A LIFE UR A LOSER UR FAMILY PROBABLY HATES U SHOULD THINK ABOUT SUICIDE U JERK GET A JOB

LSCIERVO@AOL.COM
LSCIERVO@AOL.COM

SO ARE U FOR MAKING STUPID COMMENTS UR POB FAT AND UGLY AND HAVE NO FREINDS

Warrior-Woman
Warrior-Woman

Either way, Tyke, the parents, who were both working, productive members of society, would still be alive, and a lunatic, murderous waste of skin would be dead. What's so wrong with that? Stop with the namby-pamby liberal "everyone has rights no matter what" b.s., it's destroying this country.

ibivi
ibivi

Yes, I do know that the mentally ill won the right to refuse treatment and that they cannot be committed as in the days of institutions. Tragically, that is to their detriment and puts families in mortal danger. Who protects them from the murderous impulses of the untreated?

LSCIERVO@AOL.COM
LSCIERVO@AOL.COM

SHUT UP GET A JOB LOSER YOU ARE A LOSER GET A LIFE U CRACK HEAD

Tyke
Tyke

Objecting to a psychotic proposal that people should commit preemptive first degree murder is not exactly being a "namby-pamby".

You are one sick person.

 
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