POWER UPs Codikow points to a controversial explanation for the difference. At the risk of getting my ass kicked by every woman I know, she notes, men are smarter in business than we are. They understand that even if they hate the person sitting across from themeven if its their ex-boyfriendthey smile and move on. Women are like, I cant be in the same room as her because I slept with her. Its too much bullshit.
Not only that, but power players tend to socialize at least as much with straight men as each other. One of the stories that lesbians in business tell all the time is that its sometimes easier for them to be mentored, because the people mentoring are typically straight men, and their wives feel much better about them mentoring a lesbian, Out & Equals Berry says. And then theres that whole lesbians playing golf thing.
Speaking of golf, one event that might come closest to bringing together a lesbian version of the gay male mafia is the Dinah, the annual festival that coincides with Dinah Shores LPGA tournament in Palm Springs. Attracting more than 5,000 attendees, many are bound to be VIPs, andas at gay circuit partiesnetworking inevitably takes place at the expensive cabanas during the parties. Otherwise, according to the Dinahs producer, Mariah Hanson, they just want to mingle with the thousands of good-looking ladies. VIPs from several Fortune 500 companies come, but theyre under the radar screen, she says. Besides, everybodys dressed up at the Dinah. Its not like power lesbians glow.
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