been a while i long for chubs girls,i just want to settle down now,in need of a big and beautiful lady,pls contact asap via +447572930185 ,await your swift respond sooner,thanks
Dan Weiss is 26, stands five-foot-six, weighs about 130 pounds, and has a thin chinstrap beard outlining his jawwithout the scruff, he looks 12. This Tuesday afternoon in March is the first time weve ever met, even though hes a freelance music writer and weve been e-mailing each other professionally for years.
I first took an interest in him in September 2009, when he reviewed a live show of the Coathangers, a scrappy all-female grrrl-wave four-piece from Atlanta. In a note that was apropos of nothing really, he mentioned that he had taken out a description of the women in the band as super-cute, because, he said, he didnt want anyone to think he was into skinny girls.
His Facebook profile filled in some of the blanks. He wore black-rimmed glasses and uniformly tight band T-shirts. He had shaggy black hair that fell in wiry squiggles. He played guitar and studied English at William Paterson University. There were snapshots of him posed with a beautiful young woman who appeared to be more than twice his size, wearing a French-maid Halloween costume. And there was a link to Ask a Guy Who Likes Fat Chicks, an unsigned advice-column blog for your plumper-related stumpers.
Entries happily, ravenously, robustly referenced double bellies, back rolls, and big old ham thighs. Feminine body shapes were compared to pears, apples, and one calabash squash; their weights spanned from 180 pounds to over 500. Big Fat Sexy Kitty, a young woman who described herself as five feet tall and 260 pounds, wrote in: I want fat sex. I want my jiggly bits rubbed and squished and fondled sexually.
In person at the East Village's Cafe Orlin, Dan explains that, yes, he likes round bellies. He likes double chins. He likes breasts the size of his head. He loves flabby biceps. Fat upper arms are awesome. I would almost say Im an arms guy, he says, not by any means whispering. I didnt know that they would be that soft. I, like, fell asleep on a girls arm once. I was like, Wow.
The blog Ask a Guy Who Likes Fat Chicks began on a whim, with Dan posting during his border-crossing bus sojourns to visit his long-distance girlfriend of two years, the smoky-eyed French maid from Toronto. The phrase Fat Chicks was meant to be a reversal of the college-humor slogan No Fat Chicks. And in the online world of Facebook groups and BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) messageboards that Dan inhabits, fat is preferable to overweight, which implies a standard, or hefty, which belongs to the trash bag, or heavy, which sounds like furniture. And Fat Admirer is the most frequent shorthand for straight men who prefer fat partnersthe better-known term Chubby Chaser has become associated with the gay community.
Too lazy to consider himself an activist, but cocky enough to be the mouthy weakling who would be getting my neck rung by the bully and still saying shit, Dan is ego-driven enough to envision a greater purpose. Society sucks, and society says you need male validation. If youre trying to say fat is attractive, as a lot of women out there are, it helps to find legitimate people who find this attractive. Or, as he put it more bluntly on his Facebook page, after contributing two pro-fat pieces to lady blog The Hairpin, I write about my preference for fat women in hopes that other men who share my preference will make themselves known so theyll stop being little ballsacks and let the millions of fat women in this country find them.
In other words, Guys Who Like Fat Chicks are not make-believe. Were out there.
Dear Askaguywholikesfatchicks: Why do you like fat chicks? Sincerely, A Fat Chick
Im so glad you asked. But the answer is: I dont know. Its the same I-dont-know that pubescent boys will tell you after waking up strangely soaked from a night of dreaming aboutI dont know, Ashley Tisdale. The real question is, why are so many Fat Admirers in denial? I cant tell you how many guys (or gals) there are like me, and a good portion of them being in the closet makes the numbers even fuzzier. Over half the U.S. is consideredDUN DUN DUNoverweight. Someones fucking all the fatties.* Be a sport and let them know.
*Contrary to popular belief, its not me. [January 7, 2009]
Once upon a time, if a young man wanted to see a fat girl naked, he actually had to woo her. Playboy and Penthouse didnt publish stretch-mark-mapped centerfolds. BBW nude-model paysites like PlumpPrincess.com and BigCuties.com did not exist. Dan didnt have that problem. An early memory was having Entertainment Weekly, cutting out pictures of Anna Nicole Smith in the Guess ads, and just studying her boobs. But unlike his Fat-Appreciating forebears, he had the Internet. I was looking for bigger and bigger boobs online, and when you looked at bigger and bigger boobs, you wound up finding bigger girls. And I was like, Oh, wait. I like all of this.
been a while i long for chubs girls,i just want to settle down now,in need of a big and beautiful lady,pls contact asap via +447572930185 ,await your swift respond sooner,thanks
i love white chubby girls with thick thighs and always dream to meet,is there some chubby girl? please write me i will be glad 2 meet
i love white chubby girls with thick thighs and always dream to meet,is there some chubby girl? please write me i will be glad 2 meet
I've known about this for a while and though it's an interesting change from men and boys who are fixated on thin women, "fat chicks" and "thin chicks" are not actual people. How about being into Susan or Tanisha or Madeline or whoever, because she is smart and sweet and easy to get along with? Are there women and girls who are only interested in "thin guys" or "fat guys" or is that strictly a male phenomenon? Objectifying people is no way to encourage healthy relationships or dismantle the ever-present rape culture we live in.
Wow this is awesome, I am a bbw and this new found world has boosted my spirit. I have always loved me and this just takes my love for me into a different realm.
Wow this is awesome, I am a bbw and this new found world has boosted my spirit. I have always loved me and this just takes my love for me into a different realm.
I'M LOOKING FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP I'M LOOKING FOR A HONEST Big FAT WOMAN IF U'RE INTERESTED add me or inbox me i'm honest and serious, you can also add me on skype as de.governor01 or friend me on fb
Fabulous web site I have just found of a classy fat lady think I'm in love!
sfranc0.wix.com/bbw-40-38-40#!home/mainPage
Not all fat women have low self-esteem and have health problems. I'm 5'3", 205 lbs and I run 4x week and do yoga 3x. Yes, I'm fat and I'm a walking contradiction to what health scientists have researched. Matter of fact, I should be dead b/c of my BMI, but I'm not. I exercise, I eat, I date, I don't hate myself, and I really think one can be big and healthy. Big people shouldn't have to feel like they need to lose weight before they start a new exercise or start dating or just to start something different. Do it now! B/c you only have one life. I'll prove it to you, check out my running/health blog, www.BigGirlsRun2.com
We all have different dating preferences and it's a good thing. If we all liked the same thing then we would be fighting over the same thing all the time. Fat can be beautiful and fat can be healthy. And, liking and dating fat people are not a fetish, it's a preference.
Guys who like fat chicks have a sick fantasy of breaking into the zoo and raping the hippos. That is the only reason they like fat women. Celulite is disgusting. Rolls, double chin/neck, jello arms, stretch marks ugh i'm getting sick. FAt women are disgusting
fat girls work the magic than skinny girls and nothing is better the a girl wife more meat on the bone.i live it.
most of the people think that fat girls are ard or every body hate these girls, but as a human being we should not think about these kinds of things they are also part of our soceity we should not ignore their sentments neither we have the right to play their emotions, as a media person i like fat girls and i looking a good fat girl which is beatiful this message i put for those girls who is interesting me i was just 15 when i impress very much with fat girls but sometimes i hesitate to say any body that i am interested with fat girls. with best regards, country india state jammu and kashmir cell : 09596453647
I don't know about most but my reason for liking fat women has nothing to do with any misplace emotions, fears or fetishes. I've had a thing for them since I was younger, I just loved being with someone I can hold on to, someone that doesn't mind me hugging them. Its nothing personal to smaller women I just like what I like. Most of the women I've dated in my life were fat, we had great relationships, interesting conversations, and well our sex life well lets put it like this, things I've done with my girlfriend most dude who have petite girlfriends wish they could do with their chick. People just need to get over the fact that no matter what other people think its what the person whose dating said person whether their a Fat man or a woman. Bottom line is its not your relationship! Who arre you to judge?
If guys like big girls, good. If they don't, good for them too. Anything someone is attracted to shouldn't be looked down upon. What really annoys me is when people talk shit about bigger people though.. Are you perfect? Perfect personality, perfect looks, and have never done anything wrong in your entire life? If so, THEN you can say something, but seeing as how no one alive has ever been perfect, you just need to stfu. Do you criticize people when they have a different sexuality or a different race? Why is it acceptable to make fun of someone for their weight, but not those things.. No one should judge anyone for those types of things. If you find a fat girl that is lazy then dislike that about them, but just know that you'll find just as many lazy skinny girls too. I don't understand how people can ruthlessly judge someone that they don't even know, based on what they look like. If you think someone is unattractive, good for you, don't look, no one is forcing you to and their life does NOT concern you in any possible way. Mind your own business and live your OWN life instead of pointing out what you see as a flaw in someone else. & it doesn't matter if you think they're hideous.. maybe they feel the same way about you. People just need to grow up.
Some of these BBW pages on FB are disturbing as they tend to be soft porn which is not allowed per company policy; yet that doesn't deter these women to pose as they do as I guess they need total validation from strangers that they are sexy and desirable. But it is odd that most men from other countries are the ones who seem to think so. I am just appalled as to what they post as this are no "age restrictions" or adult pages on this site, and youngsters could easily find them as their pages/groups are open. I wonder about their morals and integrity...as I would others who have done this as well, but now this is almost like a cult. But then, too, are are those whose pages lead to their porn site addy's right which is illegal as well. To be fat/obese and like yourself is one thing; but to show it as they do, that is for sites other than FB. And most claim they are healthy....but wait until they are 50+ and then come back and tell us that as obesity DOES leads to health problems that cost us taxpayers and health companies money, plain and simple and there is nothing sexy about that.
Isn't if funny that I have been on face book for a long time and never come across these pages you speak of? I don't doubt that they are there- I just never went looking for them as you seem to have been doing. Are you gay and into big women by some strange chance? I mean here you are again...on a blog about big women? Do you maybe belong to the itty bitty titty committee or the moral majority? (Do they even exist still?) I am joking in a way but I am seriously wondering why you have your tighty whitey cotton panties in a bunch over big women and the men who admire them? Is the gay community too well connected and received for you to target them so you found a new thing to champion? Why single out large women? Did one of you ex's leave you for one? I'd really like to get to the bottom of your fetish to persecute large women. You need to stop stressing - put parental controls ( or as I may suspect...husband controls) on your computer. You don't think you kids see sex and sex related content on television, movies, school buddies stash, computer. Face Book? Hardly where some kid is going to go looking- just like your generation looked up dirty words in the dictionary today's kids are Google them and ogling them a whole lot more. Talk to you kid don't rant at the world because it's a lot more effective.
You are an idiot..... There are numerous FB pages that are equivalent to "soft porn' as you described it. And they are open. There are also many disgusting pictures and videos being spread around FB that contain both skinny and fat women alike. You're whole argument can be thrown out the window. Ugh. And then to say that their weight will cost "us taxpayers and health companies money" Honey.....I'm a plus size women and I pay taxes too....and my own health care. You should really erase your reply to avoid any further embarrassment.
I come from a family of athletes so I had to learn to deal with criticism and rejection early on. I have always had issues with my weight. It's been a roller coaster. I gain weight in junior high. And had some really hard times dealing with my peers. I didn't think any of the guys really liked me until my first love. He would defend our relationship to any and everyone who opposed even his teammates. When I went to college my confidence skyrocketed. I realized it wasn't meant for everyone to appreciate all that God gave me. And that all this love could only be appreciated by a select few. So yes I am fat. But that is only a fraction of the women I am. Don't judge the book before you read it. If I can take from the people I love. Who gives a fuck what the rest of the world has to say. If you don't like it don't look. If you can't help but look, take a picture and use it to get off with.
i am a happy fat girl...... now thanks to the internet, as i teenager i was an unhappy fat girl as everyone told me i needed to diet to find a man...i was thinner when i met him. but im far happier now that im fat and living my life for me. he tells me everyday how perfect i am. Yet he isn't a fat admirer just a man who loves his wife no mater her size.
Nice article, fatties are hot, my current girlfriend loves her fat and having it jiggled and played with and is turned on by overeating, stuffing and growing fatter which is ideal!!
Aren't they supposed to be human beings also!! why discriminating and why the priority to skinny girls with bones poking their whole body!! Chubby girls and BBWs are beautiful, affectionate, tender, soulful, and HOT.. They will definitely make you happy. Salute to every big girl out here, WE LOVE YOU ALL :)
I love fat chicks with all my heart and will never stop loving and cherishing them
My boyfriend pretty much summed it up this way "I like the way you look and if they don't it doesn't matter and if they want to continue to push the issue, I got two fists that would love to discuss it further." I love that man
It just goes to show that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think this is a great article that shows there is someone out there for everyone and everyone is beautiful in their own way. As I get older and more mature, its more about who the person is, their style that makes them attractive. Looks are great but its not the only thing that makes someone attractive. Very touching!
OK I have been reading the comments and I have to say a few things. If some on here don't like fat girls and thinks its disgusting then OK. Its your life you can like what you want to and do whatever the hell you want to but don't put us down like some of you do. We have feelings too you know. And second, not all skinny people are healthier than fat people. I have a friend who is a size 6 ( l am a size 24) and she has some of the worst problems ever because of what she eats and because she is so lazy. I have been put down all my life because of my weight and I tried to kill myself over it once. Sorry I didn't mean to make this sound like I was whining. I'm still waiting for a guy to come along in my life and this gives me hope :)and to all the guys that like us for who we are, thank you. ~ Jill
This ISN'T a fetish. It's a preference. Just like the next guy might prefer his girls with red hair, this guy and many others prefer their women fat. Simple.
I love big ladies they are good to you and know how to treat their Man they will love you a long time... and won't ever cheat, Lie or steal from you.So are you that lady I'm looking for if so email me at italian120065@yahoo.com I'll be waiting for your email....Love Big Girls....hugs and kisses...
I was going to have a date-leading to sex with a chubby girl I met online today but I cancelled.I was afraid she would be fatter than her photos.I banged too many fatties in the past two months. They are easy.I need a change
Shit up bitch yo skinny ugly ass stank breathe bitches I hate skinny fuckd duck a ding dong
This isn't even English get an education before you attempt to flame somone you ignoramus
Why are so many women creeped out by fetishists? Almost all men are fetishists in one way or another. So what? That is just what men are like. I understand that some people consider fetishes dehumanizing, but I don't think appreciating somebody as a human being and appreciating them as an object of desire are mutually exclusive. I feel sorry for men who like fat women, it seems as if there are plenty of men, women, and even fat women who are weirded out by such preferences.
all you big, beautiful women...if you are ever in Chicago ~ hit me up! sterranova@aldridge-electric.com
What bothers me about this kind of comment, is that there are people out there with such low self esteem already, and they are suicidal. Some of us fat girls have doomed ourselves and convinced ourselves that we will be alone for the rest of our lives. It's such a sad fate. Almost everyone wants to be loved unconditionally by someone. And then people like that get on things like this, and spew that hatred for people that are not like them. I can only hope that someone they love gets fat, or actually, I can only hope that they get fat and maybe they will see the world in a different way, but to each his own. There is a special place in hell for them.
You know what I liked about this article and this man they've interviewed? Only ONCE did they use the term BBW. Through everything he just said he liked fat chicks, fat. Fat. FAT. Fucking say it you guys and stop hiding behind dumb terms formed on the internet, seriously.
I am fat, I am gorgeous, and by fucking god I am a woman, but the term BBW turns into a instant fetish or creeper word to me. I'm an intelligent woman and I feel sometimes those terms demean me, do skinny women have a short term? "Skinny Sexy Woman" SSW? If so, please tell me if there is a obsession here because I must be missing out. I can do the terms chubby, overweight, obese, sized, whatever, just not "large ladies" and "big beautiful women" and "chubby chaser" makes me sick as a fat chick.
It's like the racist term for fat people; it's like calling the fucking kettle black. It's offensive while meaning to be explanatory.
Truly I look skinnier than most girls at my wight because they're shorter, but I'm fat. Still fat. Most deny that I'm fat, but I'm fat. I'm OK with it-- Screw all these haters, mayn! Haters gonna fucking hate.
5'8'' 200 lbs at 22 white bitch right here and feelin' good.
Fat may be unhealthy but lets be honest- 95% of people will never lose the weight, so why not just accept ourselves and be happy? However, being a feeder is as destructive as trying to get someone to slim down as it preys on low self esteem and demeans women. We all want to be accepted and loved for who we are- fat thighs or chicken legs.
Look, I am a big girl, and yes It is unhealthy to be like this, but it's really obnoxious when men and women discriminate just because I'm" bigger." my boyfriend is probably not into bigger women, but he stays with me because we love each other and that's all that matters. He has encouraged me to go to the gym and that's what I have been doing. Sometimes all that fat girl or fat guy needs is too feel like they are worth something , so maybe they could change ( I am still happy with my previous weight and who I am now). But to go ahead and tell someone " you just don't have enough self esteem to get a smoking hot woman" is just childish and blind sited. Grow up, if you like a fat girl , but your super healthy, encourage her to workout with you just because you care enough for her. Really, don't be juvenile about the whole concept.
wow, this actually gives me some hope. before coming across the 'ask a guy who likes fat chicks' blog, and through that this artical I would have never believed a guy could be attracted to me (yeah, low self-esteem I know). I'm 17, 5'7 and about 230lbs. And I don't feel ashamed of admitting my weight or anything on here. this makes me happy and makes me think I'll find a good guy that's attracted to me and loves me.
(LONG POST- I'd appreciate people not commenting after reading the first 3 sentences, hold your passion until you've heard me out)
The only clear problem on the face is that being obese is unhealthy, often deadly, and leads to other medical complications e.g. diabetes and heart disease (let's not forge to mention hair loss in women), pregnancy complications, the list goes on and on AND putting a huge strain on US citizens for medical costs and as well threatens their mortality. The reason people are fatter than ever before and obesity rates are increasing, is that processed crap food and soft drinks is readily available whenever and wherever people go about their daily lives. Eat it up people, your playing into the hands the companies that produce and market it wanted you to do. Then people slow down over time after gaining weight, sitting around at a desk job etc, and just become fucking lazy... hence more fatness. I'm not some picky eater who hates KFC or a great burger fries and a soda, or a few nice rounds brews, those things are all enjoyable in life, but when you eat that shit all the time like too many people in this country do, or drink your face off you get fat unhealthy and it catches up to you when you get older. NOTHING WRONG with a woman who has curves that is fucking sexy but sorry that DOESN'T include rolls, back fat, spare tires, crunched aluminum foil backs of thighs, pudgy tree stump fingers, and looking like a fucking cherub. I'm going to venture to say that people who openly seek fat women for the most part figure they don't stand a chance picking up a smoking hot woman. I'm no Casanova and I'm not even going to pretend to bullshit and say "no way" I'd never "be with a bigger girl," been there done that, as well with average, slim, skinny, chubby, yes even fat, but out of all of it nothing compares to being with a beautiful girl with a sexy fit body, sorry NADA... If the guy is missing out because he just can't get himself into a situation like that then he really has no perspective, just an idea of what he's attracted to... Great example, my good friend now dates a girl who has seriously put on some weight after they started dating, and she was chubby/fat to begin with, but when he was seeing this little Italian girl a couple years back, they way he spoke about her you could just hear it in his voice how much more happy he was about his situation. He's the kind of guy that usually ends up with a heavier girl, self proclaimed not good at picking girls up, but he does come through pretty nice sometimes and it's written all over his face that "atta boy!" Let's not kid ourselves everyone can appreciate true beauty. AND I'm not trying to speak to shallowness here, like I said I can be attracted to a chubby girl, personality is VERY important, yea it may be fun to mess around with a really attractive fit woman but if she's a bitch or brainless or conceited that's not someone I'm going to take seriously and will not enter into something serious with that person... And to the point where the person has let themselves go and has lost control, you're just a fucking sucker at that point and unless you do something about it you are short changing the hell out of your life.
Health factors always play a part. But otherwise--
The comment that someone "can't do better" is a misconception. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we split up for a month because his family said I was too fat; I'm 5'8'' and 200 lbs, (I am a gorgeous woman might I add) my height greatly distributes me well. He hooked up (to virtually show this girl off) she was this ultra skinny, obviously generalized more beautiful than me woman; he tried having sex with her, and not from his mouth, but hers, he couldn't because she just didn't have the features he likes, she didn't have the boobies, the cute face, and just flat out called this girl ugly, sand he was mine. She was paper thin, and that his dick would break her. She's not the first stick he's banged, it just doesn't work.
Needless to say, not everyone's mindset is on a fit woman. I can, for a lack of a better term, "ride a dick" just as well as any Sue Jane that walks in that door. Sure, I've got some tits and a little more going on, but I'm amazing at what I do. My self esteem? Higher than any, mind you, skinny bitch I know. :-)
To all the dudebros and concern trolls who've commented on this article: I may not be the healthiest girl in the world but at least I can sleep comfortably knowing that I never have to worry about any of you expressing sexual interest in me. Because that would be gross.
Are you my soul mate or something? :)Im also into fat girls, only difference is Im fifteen XD
Well as "A Fat Chick" stated that we (the fat admirers) should come out of the closet. It is definitely not as easy as it sounds. I myself have not told anyone of my sexual preference. People feel as though it is like being a homosexual when in fact it is nothing like that. If I had too I would probably only tell my girlfriend but only if she were a bbw. ;) Bottom line. I can't speak for all men out there considering I am only 14. I also feel afraid of being ridiculed by my other school mates. High school is a dog eat dog world. Congrats to everyone with the courage to come out and tell the world. I wish I had the self confidence to do that my self. -The guy who secretly likes big girls : p
I encourage you to be strong and be fully honest with yourself and the world. Life is short and high school is even shorter. What are you afraid of, what people think? Maybe they laugh, then what? Nothing...life goes on. Every day you are not honest with yourself, you're cheating yourself out of time to live freely and honestly with your preferences.
When I was in high school and even college, as a big girl I felt like no one had an interest in me, and in retrospect, it's because of too many boys who either truly weren't interested or cared too much about what other people thought to date people like me. It hurt a lot, but in retrospect, I didn't have to deal with guys who were either shallow or weak.
It's not as easy to be strong as it sounds, but it's not impossible. Don't be one of those guys I knew in high school who was simply weak. Don't be a follower, be a leader.
It's like I tell my teenage brother - if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem.
Find everything you're looking for in your city
Find the best happy hour deals in your city
Get today's exclusive deals at savings of anywhere from 50-90%
Check out the hottest list of places and things to do around your city
